Porn Viewing

I recently watched a porn of a threesome and double penetrations took place (two black men and a white woman). Here my critique: The men started by taking off the woman's shoes then both placed a  big toe in their mouth and sucked it with same motions as sucking a dick and my thought was they want to suck a dick. Foreplay continued, then the double penetration took place. One man was laying on his back, his dick was in her pu$$y. The other man straddled the woman and man, his dick was in her a$$. Has they were fucking this chick, the man on top balls was slapping the man on the bottom dick. The camera man focus on this angle and wouldn't show the expression on the men faces but showed the woman facial expression. After they fucked, she sat on the floor and sucked both dicks at the same dam time (sucking & rubbing the dicks together..that's gay) . In my mine, I'm like, they are bisexual. Then one of the men took out his dick out and fucked the bitch in her ear....I TOLD YA'LL THAT THE EAR WAS GOING TO BE THE NEXT HOLE MEN WILL STICK THEIR DICK IN TO FUCK. The woman grabbed her shoe and held it close to her mouth (I'm like, what the fuck this bitch about to do) and the men cam in the shoe and this filthy bitch licked the cum from the shoe and swallowed. Nasty Bitch!

Sex is personal and everyone has their unique approach to sex, but let keep in mind that it's pornographic film and the talent are instructed/directed and getting paid. Double penetration feels good, I know, because I have experimented with myself with my finger and dildo an I need a cigarette when I finished and I don't smoke. Watching this film didn't get my pu$$y hot an it was more towards shock value. It gets a thumb down.

Took 2 the Streets of New York & Talk 2 The People About SEX

Jamaican Man #1: Has been married for 16 years. His wife (who is Jamaican) found him watching porn, freaked out and said, "get the fuck out my house you slut! What makes you want to watch this filth?" She rarely sucks his dick and she don't like her pu$$y licked. However, he said, "she's a good woman, take great care of the kids, keep the house clean and she pays all the bills (the money he gives her to pay the bills and whatever is left over is hers to go get her hair/nails done etc.....such a good dude). He told her he wanted more sex an if she don't comply was going to leave her as a result she stepped her sex game up.  He works two jobs and goes to school now she's complaining about him not being at home, so she gave him an ultimatum... quit school or she's leaving. He chose to stay in school, he says, "I'm have a great time experiencing casual sex, going to strip clubs and visiting swinger parties.

Rill Advise: Ladies, if you have a good man that takes great care of you, suck that mans dick and fuck him like a champ. Word on the street (not saying it's true and it doesn't apply to ALL Jamaican women), Jamaican women are taught that sex is bad or not taught about the pleasures of sex. 

Men, you have to engage your partner in a conversation about yours & her passions & desires an if you can't achieve a mature conversation the relationship is hopeless.

Jamaican Man #2: Has been married to his Jamaican wife for 14 years and he claims that she doesn't like sex and she will only have sex in the bedroom. He has had a mistress for 12 years and the sex with the mistress is incredible. I asked, "Why do continue to be in a relationship with your wife?" He replied, "She's a good woman, for financial reasons (they have investment together) and for the kids." He also meet random women at bars & have sex with them.

Rill Advise: Is the same as above an I would suggest visiting a sex therapist as a couple.

Woman #1: We talked about double penetration. She said, "It felt fucking GOOD; however, she was assumed that both men were bisexual because of the touching."  She was glad she had the experience.

Rill Advise: Live Life An Experience Within Your Limitations

Woman #2: Was on her way to the doctor to get her butt implants removed because her body didn't respond well to the surgery....It was crazy because I stopped her for her outrageously phat a$$. Then we talked about women that has had similar experiences and some women that has die because of cosmetic surgery.

Rill Advise: Research doctors and speak with you primary doctor to get a sense of how your body would respond to such a surgery

 I don't agree with cosmetic surgery for vanity but then again I'm not in that position, because I love my body. The things I don't like, I would change by making wise eating habits and working out. If you got the money and you feel it would boost your self esteem by all means, do you.

We Fucked, In The Past

You had a relationship with a guy in the past and sex was involved (doesn't matter what level of the relationship). One day you two cross paths, made small talk and you go your separate ways. A day or week goes by and he's texting/calling/hitting you up on social media saying, "I miss you, I want to see". Get the fuck outta here! he want to fuck. Sweetheart, the sex may have been good or great even but, "No! I don't wish to fuck you, those feelings are long gone".  I wonder what makes men think that you would be willing to fuck them again? That's some real crazy shit! It's over for a reason. 

I'm speaking from my personal experience. I seen two guys on different occasions that I had relationships with in the past and they started calling.... I'm the type of person once my mind, heart and body are no longer invest into you. It's a rap! So I just come right out and say, "Honey, I'm not interested in you and I not ever going to fuck you". Real talk. 

 This could happen in reverse. If there are females that had a relationship with guy then one day you two across paths and you seek him to fuck. If so, please share your story.

My theory is men has extra large ego's, on top of that they begin to reminisce of how good it was or rationalize their sex game and feel that they can get it again. Uuuummmmm, NO!

My Experience As A Host @ Swinger Parties

I have Hosted swinger parties for two years now an as a host my job is to make the customer feel welcome, engage in conversation and to tease which make the man fuck the woman he's fucking harder (in a good way). Here are some of my experiences:

When a woman suck a dick/fuck a condom is always used; however, when a man eats a woman pu$$y a dental dam is not used. Keep in mind, most of these clubs are ran by men an it seems as if they have no regard for women health (women should have their own protection). Because the mouth is the dirtiest part on the human body, ladies don't allow strange men to lick, suck, bite your pu$$y. I was totally outrage by this! Condoms & lude are displayed for all to use and dental dam should be as well.

When hired as a host sometime, I have the opportunity to give a presentation of Seductive Art. This night I focused on Rill Sex Talk and ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson. We discussed giving and receiving sexual pleasure with whomever your fucking. To my surprise they were engaged and the conversation went over thirty minutes. Next up, ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson, I gathered all the ladies that wanted to participate and had the men sit in front of each lady. We (the ladies) dry hump the floor while the guys jerk their dicks (with a condom on, some of the women were naked others weren't). As soon as one of them cam the show was over. They didn't know this until someone cam...It was sexual fun!

A fine a$$ man come through. A black man with light skin, long locks, nice body and a handsome face was in the building. A female sat in front of him and began sucking his dick, I was curious to see what he was working with and to my surprise he had a Big Ole Dick. I sat next to lady while she sucked his dick and stuck my tongue out, flicked my tongue up & down, side to side and he did the same. His dick became super hard with the help of Seductress, Rill.

All the pictures, I posted is what I wear at a swinger party. And, Yes! I designed my body suit (Rill Nice)....Visual Stimulation, is real. If your  in the New York and would like to attend a swinger party email me at rillfashion@yahoo.com ....Ladies you can make purchases from my brand Rill Nice at www.poshmark.con/closet/rillnice

A swinger party isn't a place were women are disrespected sexually. It pretty much the same interaction between gown women and men outside minus with the bullshit. If you do attend you don't have to have sex you can simply watch or engage in conversation. Trust me! You will meet some interesting, cool and down to earth people with an exception of a couple of weirdo but you will feel safe because security is present throughout.

The Rill Slut something like Hustle but SEXy

Black Girls Masturbate

It easy for a a boy to touch himself simply grab the stick and go to fun town. For Girls it has been such a secret, forbidden or not talked about that some women has never touched themselves. For black girl our beauty & body has never really been celebrate (unless you want to count Kim K for so called making ass a IT thing, bitch! please in the hood black & women men know what time it is) and we (black people) sometime don't see the beauty within ourselves, which makes it complicated for us as women to enjoy our bodies. However, I suggest you take the time and explore your own body. Have a glass of wine, a cocktail or smoke some weed whatever your into, but don't over indulge. If you want to use a vibrator or a dildo that fine just make sure that it does not contains PHTHALATES. Phthalates is a harsh chemical that's use in some sex toys an you don't want that near, around or in the pu$$y/a$$. And touch that clitoris, play in that pu$$y and your nipples. I suggest the clitoris & nipples because of the high levels of nerve ends, but if you need the dick inside ya, penetrate yourself which is a great way to find your G-SPOT ( I really didn't think the G-SPOT exist until that man hit that shit and I lost it...in a good way). Masturbation is a great way to connect with yourself, teach your lover how you want it and if he or she isn't around a great way to relieve some stress. So touch that pussy, today!

Rill Rants About Sex....of course

I had a sexual relationship in the past with this dude it's over now; however, we link up every once in a while just to chill, smoke, drink & chat (grown people shit). He always give me a sensual massage which I need and deserve (there no sex involved). I put it on the table by saying, "I will never have sex with you again my sexual connection with you is gone". He said, "don't say that" Why not mothafucka? it's the truth.

If you find a man that knows how to fuck you in your ass RILL GOOD, Gurl, it's can be a wonderful experience. The draw back is your asshole will never be the same, the constant shitting.

I recent watched the film Fences and my theory on sex is right (from the view point of Fences) that being in a relationship for many years and not want to fuck someone else is not likely. People, I'm not relationship shaming (shaming is the new word now) but there's no way you can be with someone for many, many years and not desire to be in the company (sexually) with someone else.

Why do men stare at me? And remain speechless. 

How can a woman or a man be in a relationship and the sex is just awful? Maybe for financial proposes, can't express the sexually needs or they don't think they can do better...trust me, you can always do better

My therapist and I were talking about homosexuality and she said, "I hope you son aren't gay" My responses "Me too, truth be told no parent wants their son to be gay". I wasn't gay shaming (there goes that dam word again) she totally misunderstood the point I was making....It too long of a conversation to type.

Men are nasty, I mean nasty nasty. I had being riding my bike ALL day and my body was sweaty, funky & musty and I told this dude that and he still placed his tongue in my butt. That's Gross! This type of behavior would be cool with me, I think if he was my man. Uuuuuummm, no 

Currently, this man has his claws embedded in my skin. He can touch my arm and my pu$$y is instantly wet but he plays the shit out of me (he don't call me, don't take me out on a date etc..) and I keep on fuckin him...I gotta leave this situation alone...He got that MAGIC....Rill TALK

I'm don't like to masturbate; however, I can make me pu$$y squirt. I haven't touch myself for a long time but yesterday. Honnnnneeeyyy! When I was finished playin in my pu$$y and rubbing on my nipples it was a huge puddle underneath me.

Sex Toy, LABELS

Many Sex toys are made with phthalates, which is use to for plastic and very toxic also danergous  carcinogen. Carcinogen is a substance capable of causing cancer in living tissues. However, company can sell sex toy that has contains these harsh chemicals by labeling them as a "novelty" meaning- not to be used or a gag. 

There has not been major testing on the affect these toxic chemical can have on the body, because the sex toy industry is somewhat protect because of the label "novelty". To protect yourself don't purchase any sex toy or jelly that contains phthalates.

Although toys that children play with and sometime place in their mouth are banned with the use of phthalates, you not sex toy? When they are placed in many opening on the body.

Glass, Wood, Silicone don't not contain phthalates

Be SMART,  READ THE LABEL, SAY NO PHTHALATES.