Vacation

On a break until Sept 2017. However, I will post here & there. Enjoy your summer keep it sexy!

Technique, Heeling Walking

Okay, Ladies! I have seen some many women struggling walking in heels, so I have a techniques to help you ladies walk sexy, confident and relax while walking in a kitten heel, four heels or six inch stiletto.

• Buy a well made shoe re-frame from buying cheap heels (cheap heels tend to lend forward which makes you perfecting walking in heels difficult...NO WEDGE HEELS)
• Purchase a half size bigger not only does gives your feet room for comfortably and your less likely gain a corn or bunion  
• If you are not yet comfortable walking on a smooth surface practice on the carpet or rug
• I would suggest for new comers to practice in a four inch heels and on carpet or rug

You have you heels on your ready, Let Go!

• First: Stand up tall, shoulders relaxed, head forward
• Second: Don't look down
• Third: Take a deep breath
• Step (start walking) don't over think, just walk
• Once you feel comfortable play attention to your posture
• Repeat 

 I will follow up with a Video

Good Pu$$y Bitches

 

 

All women claims to have the best pu$$y. Your pu$$y might be tight, wet and you fuck back. However, for a man when he gets new pu$$y, that's good pu$$y, because it's new pu$$y. I want women to feel that they do have good pu$$y(I hope you represent that in the bedroom), but from a mans perspective "good pu$$y is new pu$$y!" I have heard this phrase from soooooo many men. Men that are in a relationship go and fuck another chick just to experience new pu$$y. It has nothing (sometimes) to do with not being satisfied with you..... it's sexual greed.

What That Mouth Do?

Here are some celebrities that looks like they can eat a pu$$y/a$$ up or suck a good dick. However, just because it looks like they perform a good oral job doesn't mean it's true (looks can be deceiving)   Can you figure out which mouth belongs to which celebrity:

 Every time I see this man mouth I'm like, "It looks like you can sit you pu$$y on his mouth and he will eat the pu$$y up. Who is this?

This man looks like he can eat the pu$$y & a$$ at the same dam time. Who is this?

This lady goes way, she looks like she can tongue the hell out of an a$$ & lick pu$$y until the pu$$y is emerge in it's wetness & suck a good dick Who is this?

This lady looks like she can tongue fuck the hell out of an a$$ and a suck a good dick. Who is this?

This lady mouth is nice & wide and it looks like she will suck a dick raw. Who is this?

This man is not only SEXy but he looks like he would suck the pu$$y until all your love juices comes down. Who is this?

This lady look like she can slam a dick all the way down her throat. Who is this?

Hint: LL Cool J, Cardi B, Fantasia,Vincent Herbert, Busta Rhymes, Miley Cyrus, Rill (seductress)

Female Related Issues (Tampons, Pads & $ex Toys)

I never claim to know EVERY fuckin thing about all things related to sex, sexuality but I'm glad to report that I just found out about tampons. Listen, ladies don't fuck with tampons and how the hell are these company allowed to have this product on the market. Today, I was listening to the Breakfast Club, Tiffany Haddish was a guest and she was telling her tampon story she said, " I went into toxic shock because of the CSS." (CSS is what in rat poison). She said, "her tongue swollen and shrunk, her skin burned and eyes sunk in." That's fucked up! Fuck tampons! All these chemicals that are used are disgusting and you know how your body would reaction to these chemicals. Label reading is important but then again almost everything has a chemical component. Crazy!

 My pu$$y had an allergy reaction to pads. After my period an using pads my pu$$y would itch and I have developed  discoloration at my vulva and between my labia (lips) and the crease of my thigh. I was using a dildo (not while I was on my period....before learned about chemicals associated with some sex toys) a jelly like dildo that was made of a harmful chemical called phtalates and the pads, I believe contribute to the discoloration of my pu$$y (my sistah said, "I got a Micheal Jackson pu$$y"). Whenever I take my panties for a new man I have to explain because it looks fuckin weird....It's important to teach girls to look at their pu$$y and dip your finger in it and smell it as soon as she starts her period, so she'll know what her pu$$y looks like & smells like which would make her aware of any changes.

I notice that some fabrics makes my pu$$y stank. Generally panties that are made of synthetic fabrics.  Always read labels, look at the pu$$y & smell it!!

Gotta Take Care Of That Pu$$y

Amber Rose Showed That Pu$$y On Instagram

 I think this photo is photoshopped

Amber Rose show that pu$$y on Instagram, Did you see it? I didn't, I would have liked to have seen her pu$$y. Why? Because she showed it. Only she knows why she made such a bold move but from with I understanding she only showed the surface meaning the hair and that's nothing. If she would have open it up and placed a finger in her pu$$y that's whole another level. I think most people got bent out of shape because she did it on Instagram for all ages to see and doing such a thing affects young girls that looks up to Amber, and possible want to follow in her foot steps by show their pu$$y too.  I'm not knocking Amber, I feel that she is confident in her own skin (for the most part because I THINK some of her body part or parts are fake) and confident in her sexuality. 

Amber can be compared to Madonna in expressing herself sexually. I loved Madonna back in the back and she did influence me; however, I believe the people we like/love/look up too for the most part we have a common ground. As a young woman that liked Madonna, I appreciated/connected with Madonna because deep down I feel confident in my sexuality (however it was a long road to become the Seductress that I am today). Then I heard someone made a comment about her child and said, "what's going to happen when he goes to school and the other child tease him." Look, I'm sure her son is going to know his mother. I had an similar experience, I had to perform at the clients home (a burlesques performance, old school strip tease) and I could not find anyone to babysit my son, so I had to take him with me. I explained to my son that I am an entertainer and I will have on a wig, fishnet stocking, high heels, panties & bra pasties etc...) My son was like 2 or 3 at the time, he sat a watched me perform and then ran around the house. I'm glad that my son was able to see his mother do what I'm good at and love doing and that's dancing. My son understands me and he know about my service Seductive Art, that I written a book of erotic stories (name of the book is Quickie... coming soon) and the I blog about sex. So leave Amber & her son alone, I'm sure she got that.

I believe Amber consider herself a feminist. A feminist advocates social, political, legal and economical rights for women equal to those of men. In a way she is a feminist because girls are taught not be sexually expressive but it's OK for boys to it. I say, "Gurrrlll, express yourself, live honey, live"

Blame It On The Alcohol

Getting Black Out Drunk seems to be a white girls thang (not to say that women of other backgrounds don't get drunk but when I hear the phase Black Out Drunk it comes out of a white chicks mouth...I'm just sayin). On Bachelor In Paradise the contestants involved are Corinne Olympius (she's white) De Mario Jackson (he's black). They were filming and Corinne & De Mario was drunk and sex began (from what I understand it was oral sex and the shit was filmed.......DAM! Why did they tape that?) I hope that the black man don't take the fall for this because Corinne claims "she don't remember anything that happen" (Black Out Drunk). Does this means, she going to cry rape? (classic white bitch shit....you black men are going to learn.... fuckin with them white girls). The crew which more than likely is white was probably thinking "fuck her for fuckin with that black man." I'm not saying that statement is accurate but I bet some were thinking that way. If you see two people are drunk and your filming a reality show and not porn, I would think the director would shout "CUT!" because of lawsuits. The lesson here is:  KNOW YOUR LIMITS WITH DRUGS & ALCOHOL so you can be aware of your surrounding and in control of your mind and body. If you make the decide to get out of your mind drunk be with people that you absolutely trust...... 


            We don't condone anyone of any gender or racial background being sexually assaulted

 

A Man Asked U 2 Eat The Pu$$y

90% of the women (myself included), said "No." If a man asked/begged to eat your pu$$y, would you let him do it? A man, on the other hand, if a woman asked to suck his dick more that likely he would whip that dick out without hesitation. First, women don't like thirsty ass men. Second, women think you ask every woman your attracted to eat her pu$$y. Third, the mouth situation probably is not right. Finally, What I look like pullin my panties down and letting you slob all over my pu$$y.

The 10% of women that answered, "Yes." Went like this:

• Hell yeah
• If I haven't bust a nut in while and need to release...lick that shit
• I  hope a ni$$a would ask me.....panties off
• Bitches need their pu$$y lick just like a ni$$a needs their dick sucked
• Do you (talkin to me) know man that want a eat pu$$y? Send him my way

What would be your responses ladies?

Showing Affection

I witness a young couple (teenagers, a girl and boy) that liked each other and the showed affection by hitting each other. The guy was hitting the girl in a playful way but girl was hitting hard. (She was a big girl not a big big girl but a big girl...I'm just giving you a description, so relax) It made me think, why not show love in a kind/loving way by holding hands, touching or kissing. As I observed the young couple,  I could sense that these kids haven't been taught how to show affection to the opposite sex. In a lot of household love isn't showed physically or verbally it's assumed by the parents that the child or children automatically knows which is dumb because love is a verb which means action...SHOW THAT!

I also witness another situation were a lil boy who could have been no more that five years old with his mother and he was acting up screaming, crying and using inappropriate language. My initial thought was he has mental issues (which he probably has) but as I looked closer at the child's reaction physical abuse was also a factor in the equation. My thoughts went to sex (naturally, we all sexually beings, so knock it off) an I wondered, want kind of lover would this little boy be (an adult...don't get stupid)? 

• Maybe he would be over aggressive with women
• Maybe he would be a great lover with poor communication skills

The fact of the matter is we have to show love (saying I love you, kissing, hugging, saying thanks you & please etc..) to those that we love and I believe that those that show affection in a kind and loving matter are able to become great lovers...

LGBTQ Community, I have Question About The Q?

LGBTQ means Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning. I need help LQBTQ community, what does questioning means? Do it means:

• Your have thoughts of experiencing same gender sex?
• Your not sure if your asexual?
• You have had same gender sex but your confused if your bisexual, gay or lesbian?
• You just don't like labels?
• Is this some white people shit?

Please educated me LGBTQ! I really would like to hear from a black persons (not limited to) that represents the LGBTQ community.
 

Sugar Babies

What's a Sugar Baby? It's a young ladies that goes on DATES with men for money sex may or may not happen. Yeah! Right. Basically, it's prostitution with an age limited. Recently, I read a story of a sugar baby it goes: 

She was battling depression and one day she came across a website about traveling and dating. She got involved and has travel all over the world with men (married men) sex happens ninety percent of the time. Her bank account has increase, life is good.

I have no problem with women who use their body to get money (prostitution) as long as she feels good mentally, physically and spiritually while working (I wouldn't recommend this profession to any female). I assume that women in the game of prostitution love sex and excellent at being seductive. A good hoe knows how to stroke a man ego, be submissive or dominate an excellent at sex. 

My problem with these sugar babies, are these young ladies doing it strictly for the money or are they genuinely passionate about sex? Because their so young, I have a issue with these young ladies having a strong passion for sex/prostitution or the skill to be a seductress. Like the story above, that young lady was dealing with depression another sugar baby was doing it buy clothes, shoes and stupid shit like that. I'll use myself as an example: I was an stripper at the tender age of 23 an I liked it because of my passion for dance. But when I returned home, I felt filthy and I had to wash the smoke, the hands of the men touching me and lap dancing( which was sooooo gross) from my soul. I have no regrets. I do believe that YOUNG ladies that go into the sex sex industry rather it's porn, exotic dancing, escorting etc... is do it generally out of survival. There's always other options