Big, Big Booty

I keep hearing the conversation about a big booty and hygiene (how dare they!). Yes! I am a member of the REAL Big Booty Crew (All Natural) so let me clear the air for the slightly ignorant. Having a big booty doesn't mean that it can't be clean properly. We have a little more work because we have more meat. When cleaning, big booty girls, have to spread one or both cheeks to get up in there and the same applies when a man has the pleasure of pleasing a woman with a nice big ass. When big booty girls, urinate she has to spread both or one cheek to get a straight shoot in the toilet other wise there will be pee in the crack of the ass and the vagina will be completely wet. When defecation is in process, spread booth cheeks for a straight shoot and spread to clean to get all up in that shit (figuratively & literally). I hope I cleared the air........No, this is not a pic of my ass

He Fucked, Who?

James & Tammy has been married for 6 years and they have their ups and downs like all married couples. One night Tammy's aunt Jackie stops by because she was in the area and James tells Jackie, "Tammy is at work" (thinking she would turn around and leave), but she comes in anyway. James walks in the kitchen and shouts to Jackie "would you care for something to drink?" Jackie declines because she has her own alcoholic beverage and began drinking it. When James return to the living room, he sits down and continue watching the game he's so engross in the game he forgot she was there. Until she said, "What keeps a relationship alive?" James doesn't hear her so she says is again but louder. James say, "Why are you asking me? I'm no relationship expert." Jackie continues, "Let me rephase the question, what are you doing to make Tammy be with you for so long?" Feeling uncomfortable, James say "I think you had a little too much of whatever is in that bottle and I would like it if you leave." James always thought Jackie was sexy but it's just a thought, not in a million years would he ever act on it. Jackie gets up, stands in front of the TV and pulls her pants down then bent over. James dick gets instantly hard with his dick is doing all the thinking he pulls his dick out and fucks his wife aunt right there in living room. There was no passion just strictly penetration (Jackie was enjoying it and James was too) and when James was about to cum he took his dick out of her pussy and nuttied on her butt cheek. Jackie, this scandalous ass woman pull her pants up and said "That's why Tammy with you because of (she said it in a Kevin Hart voice) that long dick!" James said,"Leave!"......years goes by and James or Jackie never mention their sex escapade. Until one night James say, "what up?" Jackie said, "come by tomorrow".....A True Story....Have Some Morals, People. What would you do in a situation like this?

Watching Porn

Do you enjoy watching porn? I do, only if two or three people are expressing themselves unselfishly and if the women aren't being abused and humiliated. The sex industry is dominate by men an in a lot of cases the women in porn films are not in it for the joy of sex but for man's self satisfaction. For example:

• Cuming on the face
• Swallowing cum
• Aggressive anal sex
• Feces eating
• Gang bangs
• Penetration with no passion

And the list goes on and on. Finding a pornographic film that's suitable for a woman to watch can be a difficult task but you can find pleasure treasure's with female filmmaker's such as Petra Joy, Lib Dem and Anna Span (I personally haven't as of yet watched any of their films) but these women are known for "female friendly" porn. I have found a film that I LOVE to watch and get me wet instantly, I don't have the cover to the DVD but there are six different scene and one scene is incredible. There's a black man with a big ass dick and a black woman whose pussy squirt (it's not digitally modified) and these two people are giving each other the one of the greatest gift PLEASURE...there's kissing, sucking, biting, pussy licking, ass eating/fucking, titty sucking, nipple licking, sex toys are involved, caressing etc... It's a great film to watch while fucking, Why not? Plus you can learn new tricks to place in your existing bag of tricks.

From my research (which were mainly African- American women), there are some women that don't enjoy watching porn because their wondering what the man is looking at (basically she thinks that the man could be gay) or she think that when they watch porn, that the man is thinking of fucking the woman on the screen and not her. Ladies, don't put yourself through all this mental stress!!! I  understand if porn is not your cup of tea but if you want to keep your sexual relationship strong you have to be an out of the box thinker and try new things or the next bitch will.
 

Aroma

My last post was about bad body odor so let end on a sweet smelling note. Selecting a fragrance that suits your personality can be a difficult task with so many fragrances on the market. However, here are some suggestions on finding a scent that reflects you:

• What smells capture your attention? When shopping mention your selection to the sells person
• Smell only three fragrance a day because smell too many fragrances can alter your sense of smell
• If you smell something on a person that you like ask, "What are you wear?" 
• Never buy bootleg perfume because it lacks the tensity of the original

Once you have chosen your fragrance DO NOT OVER INDULGE because over indulging will only intensify the smell and you DON'T want to leave a room and your fragrance lingers (that's Bad meaning Bad). What you should do; tap the nozzle once, then take the fragrance from that area of the body and coat it on other areas of your body... that's IT. Your scent is personal it's for you to enjoy and people in arm length, not an entire room plus you want your partner to love the scent your in because that keeps him or her closer which can only mean more Hot, Hard, Moist.... Nights!!

Did You Smell That?

You and your partner has made plans to sex each other up but when he or she arrives an odor (body or breath) follows. And the person with the bad odor has the audacity to assume that kissing/sex is going to take place. Really! Some people are shy and won't say a word and allow smelly kissing/sex to commence (yuck). On the other hand, there are people who doesn't have a problem expressing themselves verbally (high five) and would tell the person with the bad odor "go jump, yo funky ass in the shower". It's not being mean. It's only you two there and that's your sex partner, girlfriend, boy friend, husband, wife and you shouldn't feel bad because you have standards plus you're teaching him or her about hygiene which is a life lesson.

A true story: As you may or may not know I, Host swinger parties and no I have never had sex there. And being in a sex charge environment I never got horny because the sex I witness lacks passion; however, on three occasions I witness two/three people really expressing themselves to each of sexual... Awesome. I hadn't had sex in seven months and on my way to the swinger party I'm contemplating to myself "you need to live a little". Once there I got dress wigs, eyelashes, makeup, stripper shoes and a sex outfit (something I created, Rill Nice) so I start my rounds by talk to the men telling them about the massages, drinks, making small talk and making them (men) feel special and welcome. This guy and I was having conversation and it went like this:

• Guy; why don't you have sex?
• Me; I'm the host and sex I see lacks passion
• Guy; I'm very passion
• Me; oh, really
• Guy; may I give a  massage?
• Me; yeah, sure

So I laid down and he massage my body then he asked, "can I lay on top of you" I said, "yes" he started dry humping me it felt so good to feel a hard dick (remember, I haven't had sex in seven months) then we kissed passionately (I was in sex heaven) and he said, "let me get a condom" I jumped up and said, "I'm not ready" but instructed him to come back next week. 

Next week arrived and as I walked out of the bathroom he was standing there. We got a drink and began kissing (Oh, his body is fuckin beautiful) and I placed my lips on chest and stomach I notice that he tasted salty but that didn't matter to me at that point (remember, seven months no sex) however, I did take a mental note. On this day, I had on a sexy little dress (Rill Nice) with no panties. He rubbed my pussy an in an instant she (my pussy) released juices, I yell & moan. I put the condom on his dick (Ladies, you have to make sure that the condom is ON when having sex with a random guy). He sat down and I sat on top of him and we fuck each other so good and when he came he screamed and bit me on my back....so sweet.  It was a wonderful experience to have sex and people sitting there watching. Honey, I lived. I was so captivated that I gave him my number and I told him "I'm going to be your mistress". Yeah, he's married.

He calls the following week and we made plans for he to come over. The hour came for him to arrive and he was there on time, I reached out to hug him and smelled an odor that smelled like wet dog. I released my arm from his neck and said "this not going to work because you smell awful (plus I remember the salty taste)" and closed my door.  I Can't.

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Rock the Red Pump Campaign, brings awareness of HIV/AIDS and how it affects women.Women represent 27% of all new AIDS diagnoses with African-American women accounts for 66% of that group (You HEAR That SiSTAH, that some scary shit). On Tuesday, March 10, 2015 show your support by wearing your Red Pumps and get a conversation going about SAFE SEX....Um, I live in New York and it's a lot of snow outside so I will paint my toes red and rock my RED PUMPS inside.

You can easily be distracted by lust and throw precaution out the window especially when it feels sooo good. But you MUST make a conscience discuss and the light bulb should go off in your head to not play roulette with your life. If your are in a relationship, you should have a honest conversation about sex and if you two decide to have unprotected sex you both should go get tested together and speak to your health care provider about your decision. If it's a one night stand...no-brainer use protection. Ladies: An item to have in your hand bag is condoms, female condoms or whatever method of protection you use. Have Enjoyable Safe SEX

The Propostion

For the love of money a woman will sell her precious body, as the song goes. Seven out of ten women has encounter a man that offer her money for sex.  As a woman, you must demand respect, place yourself on a pedestal and understand that sex is a beautiful way to express yourself intimately to someone you care for.... You maybe in a financial situation that looks grim but with hope for a brighter day, prayer and believing in oneself you can conquer anything. Once you exchange yourself for money your view on sex can deteriorate.

True story. A young woman (let's call her Mary) fresh out of high school talented and filled with ambition. She's sexy in the eye men but unaware of her sexy appeal. One night, while hanging out with friends Mary was introduce to an older Man (let's call him Jeff) who seemed cool because he bought Mary and her crew alcohol. Three days later, Mary bumps into the Jeff they exchange pleasantry and small talk then he said, "I'll give you $500.00 if you let me lick your pussy". She had that feeling of your language is inappropriate and I should slap you in your face but the allure of money was dangling in head and oh, how she could use five hundred dollars. Mary replied, "give me your number and I'll think about it". Mary laid in her bed and debate with herself about the proposition her final answer was "yes". She calls Jeff, gave her answer and Jeff pick Mary up three hours later. Jeff gave Mary alcohol to loosen her up. She was nervous and unsure but once he placed the money in her hand Mary knew what was next. As he performed cunnilingus on her she was tense although her pussy was moist she dreaded every moment of the experience. Mary, hurry to get dress, ran out the house and hope she will never see that man again. Mary explain to me "that she regret exchanging herself for money and that she learned to having a strong sense of self worth is far more important then the dollar bill.

But then again, there are women that enjoy having sex and make their living as sex workers and I had the pleasure to speak to woman who lived that life style:

Me: What made you earn a living as a sex worker ?
Woman number 1: I always enjoyed sex and once a man offered to pay me, I was hooked
Me: Is the sex pleasurable?
Woman number 1: Sometimes yes, a lot of times no, but I'm great a acting that's why the one who is bad at sex keep coming back to me
Me: Do you feel worthless while having sex with these men?
Woman number1: It's a job, sometime I have my good days and sometimes bad days
Me: Most woman wouldn't look at your job as a profession, I think most woman would look at you as disgust or they would pity you
Woman number 1: And I might be fucking their husband, who pays me to fuck him
Me: Are you able to have a boyfriend?
Woman number1: I have had boyfriends and once I see that we're getting serious I'll tell him what I do for a living
Me: And he's, OK with it? 
Woman number 1: Yeah, cause I bring money home ever night
Me: So basically you paying him to be with you?

The conversation ended because she got up and walked out, I guess I hit nerve. Very interesting. Interesting indeed.

Red Light Special

Sooo horny during my period! The female reproductive system is amazing and complex. There are many theories for the thirst for a hard one. Hormones fluctuate from ovation to menstruation. When the uterus fills up with blood it applies pressure on the clitoris that can spark arousal. Maybe it's mental because of the slim chance of become pregnant; however, there are women that has had sex during menstruation and became pregnant....As I stated earlier, the female body is amazing and complex. There are many items on the market to eliminate the stains such as the menstrual cup, female condom and cervical cap. Does women REALLY use these items? From my research the form of protect from the bloody mess is a condom and a towel. As a result, if you and your partner is cool with the red light special then by all means ENJOY!

This age old question, does size really matter? Well, men here's my answer, Sometimes yes and sometime no. It all depends, I'll give you three different scenario:

First. A woman and a man meets falls in love, (for the sake of a women wanting or would like financial security) he's well off and his penis is small. In this case, women wouldn't give a fuck about his small penis because he has the ability to provide fabulous living and most women would like to live fabulously. Because he has a small dick, we (women) can and do all kinds of tricks. For example, putting the entire dick and balls in our mouth, trying all kinds of positions and anal...it's less painful with a smaller dick (men, you still have to be easy and use lub). Sex will be GREAT!

Second. This woman hasn't had any in a long time or is married and her husband isn't fucking her and she simply just want to fuck, a big dick would be required for this situation. But then again, if a man makes a woman feel special, desirable & sexy it wouldn't matter because he has taken care of her mental state and when they get alone it will be On & Poppin.

Third: Men, don't have hang ups about your penis size. If you understand the philosophy of sex (in a nut shell: explore her body, keep her pussy hot & moist and try new things) plus you know how to make a woman feel special, desirable & sexy the size of your penis doesn't matter.

Love Instantly?

This A True Story, a close friend of mine recently posted on Facebook
that he is engaged. I immediately thought it was a joke but as I continue to read I realize it was true, so I posted a message for him to call me because I lost his number and minutes later we were on the phone (don't you just LOVE technology). He explained "when he & Tina met they instantly felt as if they known each other for years and decided to date exclusively". I asked "how long has he known her?" he said "a month". I congratulate him but in mind I'm thinking "Man, are you fucking crazy! Are you sure your making the right decision? You know you choice in women isn't all that great." But verbally, I congratulated him as I did on Facebook.

Many people frown upon couples getting married early because they feel it's not enough time to truly get to know each other. For example:

• How are they in bed (I didn't ask if they had sex or not)
• What's their financial situation?
• Getting to know each others children
• Morals & Values 
• Religion
• And a host of other need to know questions 

I believe that it's possible for 2 people to met, fall in love, and work out their difference as they go along. However,  I am a romanic kind of girl that watches to many love stories but I'm also a realest that knows that you have to know the cord of a person to have a long lasting relationship. But the decision is not mind to make and Tim & Tina and has made a decision and like song goes "Nobody Business!" Many Blessing to Tim & Tina and I hope your Sex life is Hot, Sticky & Moist....this is a blog about SEX>

People out there let know your thoughts or share your Instantly Love story.....