Transgender

To be honest with you, I don't know if transgender transformation should be celebrated or frown upon but it's not for me to judge that's between the individual and the creator; however, we do live in the times where body parts are FAKE and it's the norm. Bruce Jenner (I didn't watch the interview not because, I wasn't interested, I got the time wrong, but I'll caught it on youtube) came out about his battle with feeling like a woman is inside the depth of his soul. Do I believe that possible? Yeah. I have seen young children (don't know if something disturbing happen to the child) that possess characteristics of the opposite sex. The one thing that I TOTALLY don't think is true...  Bruce said "he's going to be a lesbian woman". Why would go through all that cosmetic surgery to have the appear of a woman and not be attracted to men? Have the surgery knowing that men are going to be attracted to you? I personal know a lot of transgender men who are now women and they like the sexual company of men. Now, I'm not saying that it can't be true, that a man that has surgery to look like a woman and wants to still have sex with women (there's an exception to every to rule) but I don't buy it! The doctors of transgender world has said "sexual orientation and transformation are two different things". Maybe it is for white people, I'm not saying that to be bias but white people be on some other shit and it could be a white thang and I just don't understand. There are men that are cross dressers that like the attention from men, I bet on the low low they have had a sexual experience with a man but they keep it in the closet. Do I believe, Bruce is a homosexual man? Yes. Will Bruce, keep his penis? Is that an inappropriate question to ask? NOT!

Fuckin A Blow Up Doll

You may say, why would someone want to fuck a doll verse a real person? Many reasons. The doll don't talk back, you can do whatever is in your naughty mind without rejection and it trumps masturbation. I speculate due to the fact that I never had with a sex doll. Oh, wait, it was that time as a young girl when I discover that it felt good when I dump my clitoris up against my Mickey Mouse doll and Mickey & I were pumping partners, so I have sex doll experience...I'm poppin my collar

According to sex history, the first sex doll were made of cloth or old clothes used by French and Spanish sailor while isolate at sea during long voyages during the seventeen century. Fast forward, sex dolls are made out of vinyl, latex and silicone with silicone giving the likeness of realism. Then comes alone Matt McMullen the creator of Realdolls created two decades the dolls has an unbelievable, beautifully, realistic look and dolls comes with a hefty price....$5000. My question, whose fuckin the sex dolls? My thoughts are:

• The guy that don't communicate well with women
• A loner
• A person that what to experience their fantasy
• A man that want to have sex with a particular type
• A person that don't want to go through wine & dine before getting sex
• A virgin

A place were the sex dolls would service a great deal of good is prison. It would eliminate rape, the possibility of homosexual encounter and sexual frustration (for women & men).

Then there's a company that makes the sex doll above. That's a Big Pussy Bitch as my bestie Arnold Beauchamp would say about chicks with large a labia. 

Threesome

Well, well, well the subject come up about a possible threesome, are you down? More than likely the gender that propose the subject will be a male. (not to be sexist but in my research of African-American sex & sexuality when in a heterosexual relationship 99.9% the male was the one that brought forth the topic threesome) In my opinion, I don't look at it as a stigma but as a possible sexual refresher. However, before agreeing (I'm speaking to the ladies) you have to view and discuss this sexual deviant from many different angles. For example:

• Will you & your man give your all to this woman sexually or will there be restrictions
• Who is going to select the woman in question
• What's your personal prospective on sex
• All three parties should have a candid conversation about the threesome
• How would you handle if your husband wants more
• Being tested for STD's & HIV
• Possibility that the other woman could become pregnant, what then?
• Will money be involved

As well as the man should view and discuss all angles on the subject of threesome. For example:

• Do you think your girl has homosexual tendies
• How would you handle if your girl & the other woman falls in love
• An overview of everyone's expectation
• Do you have the energy and sexual experience to please two women at once
• Your woman agrees to a threesome with another woman but give you an ultimatum for an additional threesome that will include another man
• If your girl ask, who has the best pussy or head game? Answer. You baby.
• NEVER suggest a friend or family member for the threesome 

Also know that when opening Pandora's Box anything is possible so think wisely as well as talk open and honestly. However, I believe being in a relationship for 5 years or more sex can become bland and adding something exciting as another person can shade so light on a dark gray sex life. Life is to be LIVED so Live a Little and I do understand that everyone has their, nope, I'm not doing that! If your partner introduce something your not willing to do then don't do it. You should have the sex conversation early in the relationship to see if you two are sexual compatible. 

Seductive Art

 Seductive Art was designed to empower women sexually with three important tools:

• Visual Stimulation 
• Rill Sex Talk
• Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson (ESS) (heels a MUST)

 
Men started to show an interest in Seductive Art.... now I have Seductive Art workshop for women only, men only and couples. After my long hiatus, I'm back and available for hire for your next Bachelorette Parties, All Girls Nights Out, Bachelor Parties or Speaking Engagements. Make your next event an event your friend will be boasting about!!

Married Men Are the WORST

This is a personal story: I know three married men and all have made passes at me for sex with money being their way to entice me and I declined all....Disgusting. Married man one one: states "We can go anywhere I want to go, I don't have penetrate you, you could dance for him while I jerk my dick or I could give him a hand job"... he offers me, five hundred dollars. Married man number two: I have known for quite sometime and he shares his stories of romance that he has planned for his wife. My thoughts of him is he's so sweet and thoughtful and I wish I had a man has thoughtful as he. One day as I greeted him with a hand shake as I always do he rubbed his finger in the palm of my hand (this is a jester of a man wanting to fuck you) and I quickly removed my hand from his but he leans in and whispers in my ear "I want to taste you and give you all this good dick plus I'll make it profitable for you." Married man number three: I met at a lounge during the middle of the day. We made general conversation, he explained "he was here on business and travel to New York at least once a month for work and he gets lonely. Then he asked, "Would I accompany him when comes back to New York?" I said, "Sure." He continues, "I also would like for you to be my mistress and I'll take great care of you (he rubbed his thumb, index finger & middle finger together)." What am I doing to make men think that I'll fuck for money? Is it because, I'm a sex educator and they assume I'm lose?...... Mind you, all three men are attractive and very tempting but NO!

I'm a woman's woman, which means: I think about the other woman. That's not to say that I never dealt with a man knowing that he had a girlfriend (NOT MARRIED) and once I notice that my emotions was getting involved, I would politely exit myself from the relationship. That's not right either but I'm being honest. The point I'm making is almost of the time the married man go after the girl not the other way around. I think it's rare that two people only have sex with their partner only. I don't believe we humans aren't only to have sex with one person. I do believe women think that is possible because of the fairytale that are implemented in our brains and being a woman and having sex with many men we are cask as harlot.. Whats your take on it?

My Favorite Pornographic Film *MUST SEE*

To enjoy these fuckin video (wink, wink) you must start at the bottom and work your way up.... isn't that a GREAT way to begin your next sexual encounter? Enjoy!

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Nipples Pleasing

Are you a titty man? If the breast is not your favorite part of the female anatomy it should be during sexual pleasure. Ladies, men like nipples satisfaction as well. The nipples are an erogenous area of the body meaning the nipples are sensitive to sexual stimulation, so don't leave the nipples out of your sexual routine. Below are tips for nipple satisfaction.

• Use the tip of your tongue, place it on the nipple and flick your tongue back & forward
• Use the flat part of your tongue (when you stick your tongue out) and allow that flat surface of your tongue to gently scrape the tip & side of the nipple and tease the other nipple with your hand
• Place your teeth on the nipple and apply small amount of pressure on the circumference of the nipple....some women/men like pain. If that's want they want, that's what they get
• Suck the nipple because some women breast feed their child nipple sucking is a major turn off
• Rub the breast or chest gently and let the nipple go between each finger
• Squeeze the breast together, place your tongue in the middle of breast (tongue fuck the breast) and squeeze the nipple with your index finger and thumb
• Apply tiny kisses all over the breast or chest then wildly lick all over the breast or chest

Some of these tips you have to use both hands & mouth....It's a lot of work but work that you enjoy doing, because you want your sexual experience to be mouth wetting and have him or her begging for more.

Must Have: Pair of Stripper Heels

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Kiss Me, Baby

Do you remember your first kiss? I do, and it was disgusting! I remember it was severely wet and sloppy and I spat all day. But as life moved on, my kissing skills have advanced an I think of myself as a Kissing Expert. Seriously, it's all about find someone that you have sexual chemistry with/attracted to and FALA you two can kiss until the brake of dawn. Sometimes when the sexual chemistry is there and the attraction is there you two may not hit it off when you two kiss, but if you really want to move to the bedroom with this person then you have to teach them how you like it. Say in a low voice:

• Only use your tongue
• Less saliva
• Let's tongue fight 
• I like it when you suck my tongue and then I'll suck your
• Trace my lips with your tongue
• I like it wet & sloppy

Or, however, you like it. If it's difficult to say, give a demonstration by kissing him or her like you like to be kissed. I believe when two people have good kissing connection the sex will be marvelous. Tell me how you like to be kissed.....Muah!