Well, well, well the subject come up about a possible threesome, are you down? More than likely the gender that propose the subject will be a male. (not to be sexist but in my research of African-American sex & sexuality when in a heterosexual relationship 99.9% the male was the one that brought forth the topic threesome) In my opinion, I don't look at it as a stigma but as a possible sexual refresher. However, before agreeing (I'm speaking to the ladies) you have to view and discuss this sexual deviant from many different angles. For example:
- Will you & your man give your all to this woman sexually or will there be restrictions
- Who is going to select the woman in question
- What's your personal prospective on sex
- All three parties should have a candid conversation about the threesome
- How would you handle if your husband wants more
- Being tested for STD's & HIV
- Possibility that the other woman could become pregnant, what then?
- Will money be involved
As well as the man should view and discuss all angles on the subject of threesome. For example:
- Do you think your girl has homosexual tendies
- How would you handle if your girl & the other woman falls in love
- An overview of everyone's expectation
- Do you have the energy and sexual experience to please two women at once
- Your woman agrees to a threesome with another woman but give you an ultimatum for an additional threesome that will include another man
- If your girl ask, who has the best pussy or head game? Answer. You baby.
- NEVER suggest a friend or family member for the threesome
Also know that when opening Pandora's Box anything is possible so think wisely as well as talk open and honestly. However, I believe being in a relationship for 5 years or more sex can become bland and adding something exciting as another person can shade so light on a dark gray sex life. Life is to be LIVED so Live a Little and I do understand that everyone has their, nope, I'm not doing that! If your partner introduce something your not willing to do then don't do it. You should have the sex conversation early in the relationship to see if you two are sexual compatible.
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