Through my studies, I have found that people that take on the same sex partner, sex addicts, can't express themselves sexually or participate in S&M behavior have been raped or molested. However, there are people that was born gay, have a large appetite for sex, poorly informed about sex & sexually or simply enjoy pain. My point, there's an exception to every rule. Sex is mental/physical so before you engage in a heated guilt free sex, dig deep in your potential sex partner past... it will be interesting what you'll find out.
I interview a man that was verbal abusive to women. He revealed to me while in the 4th grade he had sex with his babysitter and he would go to school and would think to himself that he could fuck his teacher. However, he would never say that he was molested but after hours of talking he did realize that that sexual encounter with the babysitter transformed his negative outlook towards women. Today his views towards women has changed dramatically. (He had a weekly session with me for 6 months... I should have charged his ass). Get Counseling!
(Don't read if you haven't read Fifty Shades of Grey)
I'm in the middle of reading Fifty Shades of Grey and I like the book so far. Christian Grey, at a tender age of 15 was molested by his mother's friend who practice S&M on him an as a result he became attracted to that world as an adult. I know it's fiction but art imitate reality.....Your sexual past shapes your sexual future.
If you have encounter any sex conflict regardless of how far in the past it happened the best thing is to seek counseling. It will only benefit you. But if you desire want you desire as a individual, then by all means DoN't sToP 2 You Get ENOUGH!!!!!
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