I am a former sex worker (erotic dancer, hostess to swinger parties, stylist on pornographic films and an author of erotic fiction) that created and founded Seductive ArT. In the Seductive ArT program we focus on three specialize areas of sexual enhancements. Our mission is to empower Black women (not limited too) with sexual confidence, to love the skin you're in and to embrace divine feminine energy. Intimacy Coach/Seductress -Rill
Wednesday, September 30, 2015
Monday, September 28, 2015
Desiree West Compilation 2, Free Vintage Porn: xHamster
Desiree West Compilation 2, Free Vintage Porn: xHamster: Watch Desiree West Compilation 2 at xHamster.com! Some of these look like they were originally 8mm loops-I'll have to tell you about the first time I was shoplifting porn mags...
First African American Sextress, Desiree West she began her career in the 70's and in the mid 90's West was inducted into the XRCO hall of fame (X-rate Critics Organization).
Masturbation, is an Order!
First African American Sextress, Desiree West she began her career in the 70's and in the mid 90's West was inducted into the XRCO hall of fame (X-rate Critics Organization).
Masturbation, is an Order!
Friday, September 25, 2015
Are There White Men With Big Dicks?
If you are reader of my blogger, you know that I have worked as a hostess at a swinger's club. I have seen lots & lots of dicks..long & skinny, short & thick, small in width and length, thick shaft with a little tip etc... Yeah, I've seen lots of dicks. A white guy came to the swinger's club where I worked and his dick was BIG (Black Man Dick, BIG). It was thick at the shaft and the tip so one of the ladies of night measured his dick an it was 10 inches long. Of course, I had to make conversation with the white man with the big dick.
- (ME) Are you in a relationship?
- (Big Dick White Man) Yes, and my girlfriend knows that I'm at a swinger's club.
- (Me) So, you two are swinger?
- (Big Dick White Man) Yeah, sometimes we play
- (ME) Your dick is your best friend? How does it feel to have a big dick and be a white man (He starts to play with dick)
- (Big Dick White Man) Yeah. It's a part of me but as a young man... when in the locker room white dude's use to like to see it and wish there dick was big
A girlfriend (black girl) of mine was fuckin this white guy and she said, "The white guy dick was bigger than both of her baby daddy's." WOW!
Big Dick White Men, O......K
Ladies, do a pretty dick make you want to suck it?
Wednesday, September 23, 2015
Would Teach Your Child About Being a Great Lover?
In a previous post, I raised the question, are you concern that your child will be become a great lover? Well, I am and I plan on teaching my child by using this format:
This is the teaching method, I will use to teach my child to be a great LOVER
What are you thoughts?
The sexual revolution will not be televise, it will be Verbalize
- Erogenous area on the human body (with a graph of the human body).
- Express the importance of caressing and kissing that kissing is learned through trail and error.
- Sex is not forceful and as the young man, you should relax and allow the young lady to come to you.
- Always use protection
- Penetration should be slow the female more than likely would be a virgin and sex can be painful if she's not fully stimulated
- Keep you mouth and hands active at all times
- Don't be embarrass to groan and moan when it feels good
- Make sure that the person care about you dating, talking, holding hands, spending quality time together
- Ask, what's your thoughts on sex?
- Male: Make the female feel special buy flowers, write a poem or anything sweet & creative
- Female: Don't accept disrespect having sex in the staircase or in a dirty house etc...
- Don't use drugs or alcohol
This is the teaching method, I will use to teach my child to be a great LOVER
What are you thoughts?
The sexual revolution will not be televise, it will be Verbalize
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
Theories on interracial sex
Black men want sex from white white women:
- To get back at white men for all the injustice he has faced
- White women have a track record of the being good at sucking dick and they swallow it
- Just to experience sex with a white woman
Black women and sex with white men:
- If the white man is financially stable
- She has been mentally manipulated
White men want sex from black women:
- He wants to experience sex from the original woman
- He want humiliate her sexually
- He has a secret attraction to black women
White woman want sex from black men:
- To experience the big black dick
What's your theory on interracial sex?
Monday, September 21, 2015
Feet Pleasure
The feet can get ignore during sex but after reading this the feet will no longer be forgotten. You don't have to study reflexology to entice your partner feet; however, reflexology teaches the heel have nerve connection to the penis while the outer and inner of the foot nerve connection to the vagina. As individual as we are, our body chemistry is different and responds differently to every touch/lick/suck/bite so it's up to you to explore your lover's feet to place him or her under your spell.
A friend (and she brought along a guy friend) and I went out dancing after hours of dancing in heels, I sat down. My friend suggested that I take me shoes off so that her friend could massage my feet. I agreed, when he placed his powerful hands around my sore feet my body surrender instantly. With every squeeze, gentle rub, sharp pounding from his fist my pussy got hot and was ready to be penetrated. Then something amazing happened! He took finger one and half inches away from my foot, cascade his finger along my foot and I felt this magical tingle that made my pussy erupt....All along they were trying to seduce me into a threesome.
I was getting a pedicure the sponge that was used had a pointy abrasive and she scrub and scrub my feet until I had no control over my body. My head went left then right, chills formed on my skin and finally I had an orgasm. Touching the feet or using a pedicure tool can send your lover over the edge which can lead to heavenly sex.
Don't Forget To Pleasure The Feet
Wednesday, September 16, 2015
Eye Contact During Sex
Once the penis enters the vagina you two become one and that unremarkable feeling embark you two on a passionate journey. While on this sexual quest your energy intensive, heart rate increase and blood boils. Looking your partner in the eyes during sex will only magnify your fondness along with let's your partner know that you are confident and willing to perform any sexual duty that is required.
Eye contact heighten your love making an I used the term love making...not sex or fucking but love making. I believe that once both parties marvels in one others eyes during love making there's a connection between the parties (not saying that having sex or fucking feels less great) but LOVE is circulating the room. When orgasms are achieved and you two gaze in each others eyes it's like your floating out in space...powerless because you two surrender yourself in the moment of ecstasy.
What Your Take, On Eye Contact?
Monday, September 14, 2015
A Fuck Buddy
A fuck buddy is a person that you have sex with when your hot and horny. There's a steamy insatiable connection between these two people that can't be denied and when they get together fireworks blast off in all directions. However, when you have a fuck buddy relationship you have to limit your emotions... only release emotions when you two are wrapped in sizzling hot sex, this can be tricky to achieve when you crave sex from that one particular person that quench your thirst. It's all about having control of your mind, understanding the relationship and releasing yourself in the moment.
With a fuck buddy you relieve sexual teasing, able to express yourself sexually without the feeling of being judged and if your personalities clash but the pussy and dick speak a language of it own....PERFECT! In my opinion, that the best fuck buddy, you can stand their ass but you fuck the shit out of them.
A close female friend (that will remain nameless) thought she could build a fuck buddy relationship with a man that's in a committed relationship. She would flirt him but he would always give her the cold shoulder. One night while having drinks with co workers she continued her advances (maybe the alcohol was getting to him) and he agreed to fuck her. Just like she had imaged it, his sex was passionate, his dick was big, she had orgasm after orgasm and it was so good she swallowed it. The following day, she would look in his direction but he would completely ignored her. Once she had a chance to speak to him alone, she asked, "can we link up again?" He reply, "You know, I'm in a relationship, it was just a one night thang."......Awkward!
In my finding, married couples that share the same concept of sex have fuck buddies and men & women can be in a fuck buddy relationship but clueless about it. A fuck buddy relationship is a great relationship if you only want to fuck but make that clear to the another person so that he or she can agree or disagree to a fuck buddy relationship.
Talk About SEX
Friday, September 11, 2015
He Put Something In the Pudding
When the new swirled concerning Bill Cosby rape allegation, I was skeptic. My thoughts were "Is this another white woman falsely accusing a black man of rape, are these women in there right mind? (some of the women looked... not mentally stable) and it's 30 years later, why now?." Like roaches that only comes out when the lights are off, woman after woman had a story. Now, I'm thinking. Is this a set up to crumble Bill's legacy? After reading countless stories an every story practically the same, the joke Bill made about slipping women Spanish Fly and Wendy Williams disturbing verbal encounter with Bill after she read a story about his sexual deviants, my perspective changed. Dam! it's true and that's awful.
Beverly Johnson has written a book and one chapter in her book is dedicated to her encounter with Bill. She explained, "how he placed something in my drink, I passed out but he didn't rape me". It felt as if she is riding the Bill Cosby sex scandal to make a profit (her story didn't seem authentic).
Some men that gain money, power and fame can have a sense of entitlement as if women are their personal sex toys. In Bill case, I think, he wanted sex from any woman that crossed his path but instead of the wine and dine, lets have an affair, he would drug these women and have his way....Disgusting!
Bill, can not be prosecuted due to the long length of time but I hope that these women that were sexual assaulted feel mental and spiritual liberated & empowered, because you are helping victims that has been sexually violated come forth............ Bravo!
Wednesday, September 9, 2015
Disturbia
Jared Fogle (the Subway spokesperson) is the latest pedophile to be arrest an it's a joyful day because he will NOT be able to cause harm to a child mentally/ sexually. All involved should be prosecuted to the highest level of the law. If you think about it, Jared (not making excuses) was an obese man, probably spend a large amount of time alone, long for affection from the opposite sex... this is all speculation but it could have triggered his sexually thoughts towards children. I wonder, what his childhood was like? If he thinks, what he did was wrong? Do he believes, because he paid for sex that involved a child that it was consensual sex? Is he afraid of women? Many more questions, to get in the mind of a pedophile. After the question an answer period, would we as a society be able to detect similar behavior patterns? To prevent this from happening to innocent children.
There was an article in the New York Time that read "Pedophilia, a Disorder, Not a Crime". I agree that it's a disorder but disagree that it's not a crime. Children that has sex for money is under the umbrella of a sick & twist mind of an adult, that's a crime.
There are villages in African that gives their daughter's (these girls range in age from 12 to 14 years old and hold the title, Wive) to men that has money so that their daughter can receive an education along with the chance to live a better life. A friend and I read this article, he's African and he said, "they don't have sex with them". I replied, "Are you crazy? If that man calls this girl (I'm pointing at a man that looks as if he's in is 50's and preteen girl) his wive, he's having sex with her and it's a crime and he's a pedophile". I understand that each culture has it's customs but I strongly don't agree with it.
We can't leave out the women that have sex with minor's and in all the arresting cases, the women were white (just making an obvious observation) they're the ones that got caught but being a pedophile is not racial discriminated. I have a male black friend, he explained while in high school (his teacher who is white). Told him, "his teenage girlfriend was cheating on him and she offer to take him home, but made a detour at her house. She left him in the living room and to his surprise when the teacher returned she was wearing lingerie and they fucked (his words)." I got the sense from his story that his ego was boosted at that time but there was a sense of sadness outlining the story. Another male black friend shared his story of a babysitter (babysitter was a Hispanic teenager) and he at the time was in elementary school. Details are graphic. He shared, "she would tell him to suck her clit, she would suck his dick and he put his penis in her pussy." The result, as an adult male he was abusive to women. It doesn't matter if the pedophile is male or female, the result is psychological problem on the child.
The mental distress and sexually frustration will be unbearable but manageable if the child receives support an seek professional help.
Talk to Your Child About Sex and Inappropriate Sexual Advances.
Comments Are Encourage
Tuesday, September 8, 2015
I'm Baaaaaack
I hope everyone have a pleasantly SEXy summer
There has been not so SEXy current events happening. Kim Davis the clerk that refuse to grant a joyful same sex couple a marriage licence. Everyone is entitled to there personal beliefs but you can't impose your beliefs on others especially in the work place. Kim, you have to learn to separate! I'm sure you are aware, same sex couple has the RIGHT to marry legally (Hooray). Your position is morally and personally, between morals and personal is understanding (seeing the big picture). I get it, stand up for what you believe in but having your freedom taken, job taken and labeled as a discriminator.... Was it worth it? You were at work, so do your job!
Sex can be a complicate issue especially for those living in the closet...afraid to share their sexually preference with family & friends. Your actions could have push a person dealing with this issue in a deep depression, ponder that. I wonder: If you have a child that was gay, what would your stands be?
Ashley Madison. First of all, I personally believe and static show that people in long term relationship cheat (not all but a large majority and some doesn't have to be in a long term relationship, it depends on their sexually appetite). First of all, one of the founders had an account and once caught was so disgusted with himself an so apologetic for the hurt he caused his family. If your married to a man that created a business on "Life is Short. Have An Affair" I would assume that, as a couple that you two would live a swinger/swap/fucker buddy type of relationship. Sometime people can be so delusional. Secondly, there were men that committed suicide (RIP), I didn't read upon these men but I assume that they had to be apart of a religious group or up held a leadership position in a church (I'm assuming). I can't think of any other reason as to why these men would take their life because of cheating. Talk about it, make a decision, move on. That's easier said than done. Third, a couple that are blogger's or youtuber's they video tape they entire life an on one espsode they were trying to have another baby but the wife had a miscarriage. With all the Ashley Madsion exposing these cheaters, the husband was located on Ashley Madison with an account. I personally think that it was a set up, so that they could get some publicity and every blogger wants that. And he apologize on their blog, the same old song. Most people have a seriously hard time expressing themselves sexually to their husband, wife etc... but it truly is a conversation that you have to have. One of the problems, once in a committed relationship, people feel that they have ownership of a that person sexually but the fact of the matter is you don't. Once you let go of you insecurity and ownership behavior you two and have a rewarding sex life.
You Love Apples but a Pear is Good to Eat too.
There has been not so SEXy current events happening. Kim Davis the clerk that refuse to grant a joyful same sex couple a marriage licence. Everyone is entitled to there personal beliefs but you can't impose your beliefs on others especially in the work place. Kim, you have to learn to separate! I'm sure you are aware, same sex couple has the RIGHT to marry legally (Hooray). Your position is morally and personally, between morals and personal is understanding (seeing the big picture). I get it, stand up for what you believe in but having your freedom taken, job taken and labeled as a discriminator.... Was it worth it? You were at work, so do your job!
Sex can be a complicate issue especially for those living in the closet...afraid to share their sexually preference with family & friends. Your actions could have push a person dealing with this issue in a deep depression, ponder that. I wonder: If you have a child that was gay, what would your stands be?
Ashley Madison. First of all, I personally believe and static show that people in long term relationship cheat (not all but a large majority and some doesn't have to be in a long term relationship, it depends on their sexually appetite). First of all, one of the founders had an account and once caught was so disgusted with himself an so apologetic for the hurt he caused his family. If your married to a man that created a business on "Life is Short. Have An Affair" I would assume that, as a couple that you two would live a swinger/swap/fucker buddy type of relationship. Sometime people can be so delusional. Secondly, there were men that committed suicide (RIP), I didn't read upon these men but I assume that they had to be apart of a religious group or up held a leadership position in a church (I'm assuming). I can't think of any other reason as to why these men would take their life because of cheating. Talk about it, make a decision, move on. That's easier said than done. Third, a couple that are blogger's or youtuber's they video tape they entire life an on one espsode they were trying to have another baby but the wife had a miscarriage. With all the Ashley Madsion exposing these cheaters, the husband was located on Ashley Madison with an account. I personally think that it was a set up, so that they could get some publicity and every blogger wants that. And he apologize on their blog, the same old song. Most people have a seriously hard time expressing themselves sexually to their husband, wife etc... but it truly is a conversation that you have to have. One of the problems, once in a committed relationship, people feel that they have ownership of a that person sexually but the fact of the matter is you don't. Once you let go of you insecurity and ownership behavior you two and have a rewarding sex life.
You Love Apples but a Pear is Good to Eat too.
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