Jared Fogle (the Subway spokesperson) is the latest pedophile to be arrest an it's a joyful day because he will NOT be able to cause harm to a child mentally/ sexually. All involved should be prosecuted to the highest level of the law. If you think about it, Jared (not making excuses) was an obese man, probably spend a large amount of time alone, long for affection from the opposite sex... this is all speculation but it could have triggered his sexually thoughts towards children. I wonder, what his childhood was like? If he thinks, what he did was wrong? Do he believes, because he paid for sex that involved a child that it was consensual sex? Is he afraid of women? Many more questions, to get in the mind of a pedophile. After the question an answer period, would we as a society be able to detect similar behavior patterns? To prevent this from happening to innocent children.
There was an article in the New York Time that read "Pedophilia, a Disorder, Not a Crime". I agree that it's a disorder but disagree that it's not a crime. Children that has sex for money is under the umbrella of a sick & twist mind of an adult, that's a crime.
There are villages in African that gives their daughter's (these girls range in age from 12 to 14 years old and hold the title, Wive) to men that has money so that their daughter can receive an education along with the chance to live a better life. A friend and I read this article, he's African and he said, "they don't have sex with them". I replied, "Are you crazy? If that man calls this girl (I'm pointing at a man that looks as if he's in is 50's and preteen girl) his wive, he's having sex with her and it's a crime and he's a pedophile". I understand that each culture has it's customs but I strongly don't agree with it.
We can't leave out the women that have sex with minor's and in all the arresting cases, the women were white (just making an obvious observation) they're the ones that got caught but being a pedophile is not racial discriminated. I have a male black friend, he explained while in high school (his teacher who is white). Told him, "his teenage girlfriend was cheating on him and she offer to take him home, but made a detour at her house. She left him in the living room and to his surprise when the teacher returned she was wearing lingerie and they fucked (his words)." I got the sense from his story that his ego was boosted at that time but there was a sense of sadness outlining the story. Another male black friend shared his story of a babysitter (babysitter was a Hispanic teenager) and he at the time was in elementary school. Details are graphic. He shared, "she would tell him to suck her clit, she would suck his dick and he put his penis in her pussy." The result, as an adult male he was abusive to women. It doesn't matter if the pedophile is male or female, the result is psychological problem on the child.
The mental distress and sexually frustration will be unbearable but manageable if the child receives support an seek professional help.
Talk to Your Child About Sex and Inappropriate Sexual Advances.
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