How Being Overweight Affects Your Sex Life

Accord to Intimina @ www.intimina.com:

Being overweight can kill your libido in more ways than one. Excessive body fat affects not only the production of both estrogen and testosterone (which help you get in the mood) but also decreases the amount of other chemicals your body needs to use those hormones. Which means your body doesn’t have the right hormones and can’t absorb the hormones it does have, often resulting in a lower sex drive.  If you’re worried that your weight is affecting your libido talk to your doctor about the best way to get back to a healthier weight, a balanced diet and committed fitness routine can do wonders for your libido as well.

An a host of other sex blogger has the same conclusion that being overweight you will have a low libido but I know something that these sex blogger are unaware of, and that is Heavenly Heavy Sistah's has a strong sex drive and very confident with their sexuality. Here are some comments by men that I interviewed about Heavenly Heavy Sistahs:

• Sexually open
• Got some good pu$$y 
• Strong in the bed
• Feels soft & fluffy
• Give good head

Heavenly Heavy Sistah's that I know are very strong, passionate & secure with their body image and their sexuality. Now, it makes me wonder, white women that are Heavenly Heavy, views on sex differ from black woman views on sex, I say this because I bet that most of the of women that participate in these surveys were white.

Whatever your size feel good about yourself and release yourself sexually to your partner.

                                                    Have a Fucking Good Time 

 

Ancient Chinese Secret

This ancient Chinese secret has been practice over 2000 year and that technique is the use of the Jade Egg. The jade egg was use only by the Empress and concubines to give long lasting, pleasurable love making to the Emperor (it was not a practice for common folk). This majestic stone was use for longevity, youth energy and to awaken sensuality.

There are three different sizes the smallest 21mm, medium 26mm, large 40mm. The large size is for the beginner to get you aware of your muscle by maneuvering the egging up and down. The smallest is for the expert. The jade egg strengthens the pelvic floor and created blood flow to all areas of the vagina; as a result, heighten sexual pleasure.

You should rub your clitoris or nipples to lubricate your vaginal walls and slowly (insert the large end first) and once its inside you should do pelvic exercise like the one below:

Up and down: 3 sets of 10 
Lift you hips, rock right & left: 3 set of 10
Sit with legs folded: inhale for 4 & exhale for 4: 3 sets of 10

Then you start to work your vaginal muscles, by moving the jade egg up and down also known as the Kegel exercise (press as if you have to pee)...By the way, Kegel exercise was name after a doctor that was teaching women to hold their pee during pregnancy. 

Start with you vaginal exercise by moving it up & down, once you feel comfortable, you can tie a cloth to each end of the string and add an small object (NEVER ANYTHING OVER 10 lbs) and move it up and down. Start with 3 sets of 10. I don't recommend sleeping with the jade egg inside.

Just like developing muscle through physical exercise, you have to maintain and weekly regiment.

                                                 Let the power of love making awaken

Tricks, Making Your Own SEXy Costume

The SEXy School Girl Costume, instead of spending $$ on a school girl costume, make your own with things you have at home and add some delicious treats that he would sure to love.

What you would need:

* Pleated skirt
* Fitted baby tee
* Ribbons for hair (2 ponytail wig, optional)
* Nylon socks
* Stripper heels or kitten heel (2 inch heels)
* Nerdy glasses
* ruffled panties

If your pleated skirt is as long as this one, cut it short an if you can sew a hem fine. If not, no worries you can give the tough school girl look (men like when you are sexually aggressive).

Baby tee make sure it's form fitting, once you have it on, take a pen make a marking to where your nipples are (of course, no bra) then cut a hole exposing your nipples. SEXy tip:

* Let your fingers run under some water, place your wet fingers on your hard nipples and sprinkle sugar on your nipples. He would enjoy the sweet taste of your nipples

Place your hair in one ponytail with a ribbon at the center or 2 ponytails with  a ribbon on each ponytail (if you have a long wig, simply place the hair in your desired ponytail and place a ribbon or ribbons)

Nylon socks you can purchase at the 99¢ Store. The socks with the ruffles that fold under....super SEXy super cute

Heels are total up to you, just make such you are confident & comfort when choosing your heel selection.

 Any eye wear will do...even shades, if your going for the tough girl look

 Ruffled panties you can get from any store that's over stock with low price items

 *Chew gum

Most importantly don't forget your submissive talk/mannerism or tough mannerism

                                                        Have A Fuckin Good Night
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Tricks & Treats For Your Freak Him Bag

Halloween is a great way to fill your Freak Him bag and a great to save money when you want your clothes rip off/make a pretty mess. For example:

A SEXy Officer, you can cut hole throughout the body suit making it super SEXy. Hand cuffs you can get for $10 compare to $25-$50 you will spend at a sex toy store and there playful meaning easy to get out of.

Gloves.  Every woman should own a pair of satin gloves there soft to the touch and it gives a great feel when giving hand job. 

 * SEXy Trick: Add some lubricant in the palm of the glove and work that dick.

Fishnets can be expensive but during Halloween season you can rack up on a varies of styles for the fraction of the price.

Trick & Treat Tips

Eyelashes: There are an array styles you can purchase that will make your eyes look seductive and make you feel SEXy. If you never worn eyelashes before eyelashes feel heavy and weird so I would suggest that you just get a basic eyelash first. How to apply:

• remove the eyelash from the casing by gently pulling the longer end of the eyelash
• place glue on the rim of the eyelash, not too much (the part that was attached to the casing)
• place the eyelash on your eyelid getting as close as you can to the rim of your eyelash
• once the eyelash is placed, close your eye for 10 seconds
• repeat on the other eye

Wigs

Can transform you into total new person, so when selecting a wigs go for something outrageous and don't worry about it coming off during sex, it all comes off anyway. Here Are some suggestions:

 

Yes, it's a lot of work and this is only the beginning. If you want to keep your relationship intact sexually you have to apply The Art of Seductive, Geisha, Seductive Art (by me) and Escort approach to sex.
  

• When tacking a wigs, use bobby pins around the crown of the head to hold the wig in place

                         I'll be giving Trick & Treat tips during the week of October 13-16, 2015

Make A Bitch Beg ( a message to men)

For women that are adventuring into their sexually (18-25 year old women) need to be handle with sensitivity and gentleness, but a woman at any age that is secure in her sexually, want a man to be a man when fucking her. Not overly aggressive but aggressive enough that lets her know she is getting fucked by a real man. For example:

• Kiss her romantically, get her caught in your web of passion then out of nowhere tug on her hair
• When penetrating her from the back (dogg style) grab her ankle firmly and press forward
• While kissing and licking her neck, grab her ass firmly and shake it up & down
• When she is in ecstasy, slap her firmly an if she gives a sign of being in pain, place small kisses on her face
• When licking the pussy and she's enjoying the pleasure walk away and when you return make her beg for more
• When fucking her get the pussy wet & happy, stop fucking her, give the impression that you are about to eat the pussy, but only allow you lips to brush softly against the clit then place your dick back inside and fuck her GOOD
• When fucking missionary press her knees to her shoulders by interlocking your arms with her legs (make sure she is comfortable by simply asking) and swirl around passionately in the pussy 
• Give her a massage, once she's relaxed make a fist, press your fist firm on her buttock and rotate your fist outer

                                                         She Won't Be, To Proud To BEG!

Sexual Indulgence

Do you run way or emerge yourself, when sexually energy is electrified? Well, I'll share a personal story:

I was going to the gym regularly and there was this guy who mind his own business and worked out (not bothering female gym goers). I notice him and was instantly attracted to him. His body was a master piece of fine craftsmanship the kind you would sink your teeth in but I was in a relationship (bummer). We would catch each other looking at one another but would quickly look away. A month had past and we were still communicating with our body but failed to be vocal. I got up the courage and said "Hello" he voice had placed me in a trance, my eyes were fixated on his, my pussy was moist and I want him to bend me over and fuck me right there for everyone to witness hot/steamy passion. Our conversation was brief but it linger in me for hours. When I returned home, my boyfriend and I had sex but my mind was on the gym guy with every stroke, kiss and touch it was as if I was fucking the gym guy. My boyfriend said, "you really wanted this dick"..... If he only knew.

Now, the gym guy and I conversations are more elaborate and I find myself wanting to touch him, so I would casually touch his massive arms. He asked me to go swimming, I agreed. My mind was racing, you have a good man, I want to feel him deep inside of me and I know we would make sweet love. I contemplated on what my next move would be. The decision, I made, was not to show up because I was in love with a good man. However, I regret NOT indulging in my sexual passion; although, I was in love with a good man he didn't satisfy me sexually!


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HIV

Danny Pintauro has come out to the public that he has been HIV positive for 12 years and the only reason he came out to the public, because a magazine has gotten their hands on his personal medical records and threaten to publish without his consent (which is wrong on so many levels). What I found interesting, Daniel (he prefers to be called Daniel) wanted to be adventures sexually, consume Crystal Meth and engaged in unsolicited sex with a stranger.

The lesson here,  DRUGS and have casual sex with a stranger without protection can ruin your life.                                       

                                                Make wise and Responsible Decision

                                        Sex is more sensual with someone that you care for




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