OMG! This has happen too many times to women/girls. This is what recently happened to me:
I went out to dinner with this guy (I'm being honest) and from his conversation and I wasn't attracted to him, I knew, I wasn't interested in him other than maybe we could have developed a friendship. A week goes by we talked briefly over the phone, two weeks go by we texted each other and during these very brief interaction the conversation was very mediocre. If you are a reader of my blog, you know that I blogged Birthday Head that I received on my birthday (it was a Rill Good Birthday!). I advertise my posting on all my social media accounts, he an I were Facebook friends. He read my blog and posted on Facebook, "wait, wait, what? I'm done". I was really confused because, I didn't know were trying to establish anything but anyway I simply replied, OK. two hours later I received a texted that read:
"I hate to say this but I'm not interested in you any more, I don't dig your style. Have a wonderful life"
I'm lost in translation because he said what he said on Facebook plus I wasn't showing in signs that I was interested in getting to know him, so I texted:
I knew we weren't compatible from your conversation and if a female like you she would let that be known and I never expressed that I was concerned about creating anything with you...Just sayin, pay attention to the signs...Good Day!
He replied,
"First of all you a dick sucker and a one night stand girl, your deleted"...(Keep in mind this is a fifty year old so called man with twenty one year son and a teenage daughter). He continues, "At the least the girl who loves me ain't advertising her sex life on social media like a smut".
Keep in mind, I told him what I do for a living that I blog about sex, my service Seductive Art and that I'm a Designer. But that doesn't matter, what matters is I don't know this person, he's not my man and he can't tell me what the fuck to do with MY body or who to do it with....The Nerve. Because he got caught in his feeling and didn't know how to express his feeling is his problem, but to try to degrade me with immature insults was so unnecessary.
The point of all this is:
- No one can control another persons discussion about their life
- No need to be verbal abusive if thing don't work out
- Best to express yourself in a respectful matter and keep it moving
- When they go low, We Go HIGH- Mrs. Michele Obama
STOP THE ABUSE!
*If you have a story of verbal abuse please each. Each 1 Teach 1*
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