I recently had a conversation with a sixty six years old black female and a seventy two years old white male while on a line at the Post Office.
Me: How often do you have sex?
Sixty Six year old female: I haven't have sex in 12 years
(my mouth fell to the floor)
Seventy Two year old male: five years ago
(once again, my mouth fell to the floor)
Me: Do you think about sex?
Sixty Sex year old female: No, I have other things on my mind like my health and my grandchildren
Seventy Two year old male: Yeah, but my wife had a stroke, so a lot of my time is spend taking care of her
Me: Do you masturbate?
Sixty Sex year old female: No
Seventy Two year old male: I try when I'm able to get an erection
Me: Do you use Viagra?
Seventy Two year old male: I can't because of all the medication that I'm taking
The advice that both of these wonderful elders gave me: Do all you can now because once you in your golden years your idea's about life, sex, etc.. changes dramatically it's not a bad thing, but while your in great health live your best life and have plenty of sex.
That really made me think. Because I'm an Intimacy Coach/Sex Educator, people perception of me is that I'm loose and that's far from the truth. I'm very conservative when it come to sex meaning, I only have sex with one person at a time (yeah, I'm able to express myself sexually with confidence) but I don't sleep around.
I have been having sex with this guy for two years (he's from New York) and these mothafucka only fucks me once a month an at one point he disappeared for like seven months, and I didn't have sex with anyone until he show up again (bitches, don't judge me but I know you will...I don't care). The last time we had sex was in September 2017. I went home to Flint, Mi December 2017 and it's this guy (he lives in Flint) that I have been dealing with off and on since... forever (keep in mind, I didn't fuck him while I was deal with the dude from New York). The guy from Flint we talk ever now and then and I told him "We're not having sex ever" (some shit went down with his baby momma and I and he was not on my side, so I was like: Fuck You!). One night, he called (the guy from Flint) and asked, "If he could come over?" I agreed. I declined his sexual advances until I told myself "Bitch, you haven't had sex in three mothafuckin months, what the fuck are you waiting on? What he is doing feels GOOD, relax and let it flow." I did just that and we had sex every night while I was in Flint.
My point is to live in the moment and to not be so frigid with sex (like I tend to be) and let go and enjoy. SAFELY!
Fact: There's a raise in STD at Nursing Home. Well, Dam!
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