A fuck buddy is a person that you have sex with when your hot and horny. There's a steamy insatiable connection between these two people that can't be denied and when they get together fireworks blast off in all directions. However, when you have a fuck buddy relationship you have to limit your emotions... only release emotions when you two are wrapped in sizzling hot sex, this can be tricky to achieve when you crave sex from that one particular person that quench your thirst. It's all about having control of your mind, understanding the relationship and releasing yourself in the moment.
With a fuck buddy you relieve sexual teasing, able to express yourself sexually without the feeling of being judged and if your personalities clash but the pussy and dick speak a language of it own....PERFECT! In my opinion, that the best fuck buddy, you can stand their ass but you fuck the shit out of them.
A close female friend (that will remain nameless) thought she could build a fuck buddy relationship with a man that's in a committed relationship. She would flirt him but he would always give her the cold shoulder. One night while having drinks with co workers she continued her advances (maybe the alcohol was getting to him) and he agreed to fuck her. Just like she had imaged it, his sex was passionate, his dick was big, she had orgasm after orgasm and it was so good she swallowed it. The following day, she would look in his direction but he would completely ignored her. Once she had a chance to speak to him alone, she asked, "can we link up again?" He reply, "You know, I'm in a relationship, it was just a one night thang."......Awkward!
In my finding, married couples that share the same concept of sex have fuck buddies and men & women can be in a fuck buddy relationship but clueless about it. A fuck buddy relationship is a great relationship if you only want to fuck but make that clear to the another person so that he or she can agree or disagree to a fuck buddy relationship.
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When the new swirled concerning Bill Cosby rape allegation, I was skeptic. My thoughts were "Is this another white woman falsely accusing a black man of rape, are these women in there right mind? (some of the women looked... not mentally stable) and it's 30 years later, why now?." Like roaches that only comes out when the lights are off, woman after woman had a story. Now, I'm thinking. Is this a set up to crumble Bill's legacy? After reading countless stories an every story practically the same, the joke Bill made about slipping women Spanish Fly and Wendy Williams disturbing verbal encounter with Bill after she read a story about his sexual deviants, my perspective changed. Dam! it's true and that's awful.
Beverly Johnson has written a book and one chapter in her book is dedicated to her encounter with Bill. She explained, "how he placed something in my drink, I passed out but he didn't rape me". It felt as if she is riding the Bill Cosby sex scandal to make a profit (her story didn't seem authentic).
Some men that gain money, power and fame can have a sense of entitlement as if women are their personal sex toys. In Bill case, I think, he wanted sex from any woman that crossed his path but instead of the wine and dine, lets have an affair, he would drug these women and have his way....Disgusting!
Bill, can not be prosecuted due to the long length of time but I hope that these women that were sexual assaulted feel mental and spiritual liberated & empowered, because you are helping victims that has been sexually violated come forth............ Bravo!
Jared Fogle (the Subway spokesperson) is the latest pedophile to be arrest an it's a joyful day because he will NOT be able to cause harm to a child mentally/ sexually. All involved should be prosecuted to the highest level of the law. If you think about it, Jared (not making excuses) was an obese man, probably spend a large amount of time alone, long for affection from the opposite sex... this is all speculation but it could have triggered his sexually thoughts towards children. I wonder, what his childhood was like? If he thinks, what he did was wrong? Do he believes, because he paid for sex that involved a child that it was consensual sex? Is he afraid of women? Many more questions, to get in the mind of a pedophile. After the question an answer period, would we as a society be able to detect similar behavior patterns? To prevent this from happening to innocent children.
There was an article in the New York Time that read "Pedophilia, a Disorder, Not a Crime". I agree that it's a disorder but disagree that it's not a crime. Children that has sex for money is under the umbrella of a sick & twist mind of an adult, that's a crime.
There are villages in African that gives their daughter's (these girls range in age from 12 to 14 years old and hold the title, Wive) to men that has money so that their daughter can receive an education along with the chance to live a better life. A friend and I read this article, he's African and he said, "they don't have sex with them". I replied, "Are you crazy? If that man calls this girl (I'm pointing at a man that looks as if he's in is 50's and preteen girl) his wive, he's having sex with her and it's a crime and he's a pedophile". I understand that each culture has it's customs but I strongly don't agree with it.
We can't leave out the women that have sex with minor's and in all the arresting cases, the women were white (just making an obvious observation) they're the ones that got caught but being a pedophile is not racial discriminated. I have a male black friend, he explained while in high school (his teacher who is white). Told him, "his teenage girlfriend was cheating on him and she offer to take him home, but made a detour at her house. She left him in the living room and to his surprise when the teacher returned she was wearing lingerie and they fucked (his words)." I got the sense from his story that his ego was boosted at that time but there was a sense of sadness outlining the story. Another male black friend shared his story of a babysitter (babysitter was a Hispanic teenager) and he at the time was in elementary school. Details are graphic. He shared, "she would tell him to suck her clit, she would suck his dick and he put his penis in her pussy." The result, as an adult male he was abusive to women. It doesn't matter if the pedophile is male or female, the result is psychological problem on the child.
The mental distress and sexually frustration will be unbearable but manageable if the child receives support an seek professional help.
Talk to Your Child About Sex and Inappropriate Sexual Advances.
Comments Are Encourage
I hope everyone have a pleasantly SEXy summer
There has been not so SEXy current events happening. Kim Davis the clerk that refuse to grant a joyful same sex couple a marriage licence. Everyone is entitled to there personal beliefs but you can't impose your beliefs on others especially in the work place. Kim, you have to learn to separate! I'm sure you are aware, same sex couple has the RIGHT to marry legally (Hooray). Your position is morally and personally, between morals and personal is understanding (seeing the big picture). I get it, stand up for what you believe in but having your freedom taken, job taken and labeled as a discriminator.... Was it worth it? You were at work, so do your job!
Sex can be a complicate issue especially for those living in the closet...afraid to share their sexually preference with family & friends. Your actions could have push a person dealing with this issue in a deep depression, ponder that. I wonder: If you have a child that was gay, what would your stands be?
Ashley Madison. First of all, I personally believe and static show that people in long term relationship cheat (not all but a large majority and some doesn't have to be in a long term relationship, it depends on their sexually appetite). First of all, one of the founders had an account and once caught was so disgusted with himself an so apologetic for the hurt he caused his family. If your married to a man that created a business on "Life is Short. Have An Affair" I would assume that, as a couple that you two would live a swinger/swap/fucker buddy type of relationship. Sometime people can be so delusional. Secondly, there were men that committed suicide (RIP), I didn't read upon these men but I assume that they had to be apart of a religious group or up held a leadership position in a church (I'm assuming). I can't think of any other reason as to why these men would take their life because of cheating. Talk about it, make a decision, move on. That's easier said than done. Third, a couple that are blogger's or youtuber's they video tape they entire life an on one espsode they were trying to have another baby but the wife had a miscarriage. With all the Ashley Madsion exposing these cheaters, the husband was located on Ashley Madison with an account. I personally think that it was a set up, so that they could get some publicity and every blogger wants that. And he apologize on their blog, the same old song. Most people have a seriously hard time expressing themselves sexually to their husband, wife etc... but it truly is a conversation that you have to have. One of the problems, once in a committed relationship, people feel that they have ownership of a that person sexually but the fact of the matter is you don't. Once you let go of you insecurity and ownership behavior you two and have a rewarding sex life.
You Love Apples but a Pear is Good to Eat too.
Thank you for stopping by and reading, however I will be posting sparingly due to summer vacation but will be back in full force in September!
Have a SEXy summer
