Be A Little Ho, Ho, Ho & Have A Merry Fuckin XXX-mas

It's the holiday season all over of the world an everyone is in a jolly mood which should inspire you for  sensual pleasure. During the holiday season let your hair down, release your inhibition and get your love justify. That can be easier say than done. To get what you want sexually/express yourself... some need an enhancement...weed, blow, cocktail (We here @ RillSexTalk don't endorse getting extremely fuck-up to express yourself sexually because that can lead to a path of destruction) but using recreational drugs  responsibly is OK because it can relax you, but don't rely on drugs as a quick fix to get your sexual juices flowing. Keep in mind the spirit of the season and that good feeling should give you the inspiration you need to get into character. Here are some ideas to  to be that perfect little Ho, Ho, Ho

* Lay underneath the Christmas tree naked and place oversize bows on your breast &vagina

* Sit across from your lover and eat your holiday food seductively

* While your lover is eating stand directly in front of him and rotate your hips slowly (naked or with sexy lingerie on)

* Place a Santa Claus hat on your head then suck on a dildo in front of your lover

* Take your man to a strip club and take him in the Champagne Room

Be a Little Ho, Ho, Ho...Keep Your Sexual Relationship ALIVE!!!

Seductress, Rill of Seductive Art will be teaching (ESS) Erotic, Sensual, Seductive dance lesson

Seductive Art: (ESS) Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson  

with Seductress, Rill

Friday: Dec 11, 2015 

7-8pm

2364 Adam Clayton Boulvard

bet 138th & 139 St.

Harlem , NY 10030

$10

• Bring Heels
• Wear Something Sexyy
• Leave Feeling Confident & Super Sexy
• Purchase: Rill Nice, Lingerie & Sexy Work Out Gear @ discount prices
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• We will workout/ Learn SEXy dance moves/Learn moves for sexual intercourse/Learn The Rill Slut....I mean, The Rill Strut/ Leave feeling Vibrant, SEXy, Confident in your Sexuality & wanting to go home & Fuck..... Rill Good

for more information you can contact us @ rillfashion@yahoo.com or 347-780-0057

Thanks For Your Support!!

ESS (Erotic, Senual, Seductive) dance lesson

Rill Fetish Stories

What is a Fetish? According the dictionary,  Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body

Because a fetish is linked to abnormality, most will only revile there fetish to a sexual partner that they feel no judgement. I recently, met with a man that is married and his fetish is smelling women panties. He goes to Strip Clubs and purchase the dancers panties, find a secluded area, takes his dick out, place the panties to his nose and beat his dick. He says, "The odor of pussy resonate throughout my body; in turn, I create a scene in my brain of me fucking the pussy that I'm smelling and when I ejaculate it's so powerful and relaxing....Yes! He asked to buy my panty and I sold them to him for a not a reasonable price.

Very Sexertesting! I asked, "Why not smell your wife panties?" He explained, "I do but from time to time I like to smell other pussy."
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                                                                    The Feet Lady

ME: Where do you think your fetish started?

Feet Lady: My father had beautiful Feet and I like looking at them...... nothing erotic about it

ME: How did the first guy feet you licked responded to your feet fetish?

Feet Lady: I don't think he thought it was a fetish at the time, it was just something I want to do and I was so good at pleasuring his feet that he cam, so he had no problem with it

ME: Wow!

Feet Lady: As I've got older, in order for me to cum I would need to be sitting on his dick with my back to him and I would bend down and suck his feet. If the man was too tall, I would stick my tongue out, use my imagination as if I was suck his feet and I would cum

ME: Now you have clients?

Feet Lady: Yes, I have a business and I hire other women and teach them the technique of Pleasuring Men Feet 

ME: How does your business work?

Feet Lady: I rent spaces at different locations twice a week & on the weekend and have Feet Pleasuring Parties (For Men Only). We offer Feet Tease, Feet Licking & Sucking, Penetration With the Feet, Feet Torch. It very discreet & safe place for my clients & my girls

ME: Can come and observe?

Feet Lady: Someone in the Sex business , of course

Me: Great!

         I would like to thank the Panty Smeller & Feet Lady for sharing your fetish story with me!

Sex Art & Freaky Tells

He satisfy me! I daydream about him fuckin me every second of the day. Oh! I WISH to be his tiny human sex doll, so he can carry me around in him pocket, take me out when he wants me. Take that enormous tongue (that I love sucking & biting) and lick me until tiny nipples are so hard that they feel as if they're about to shatter. I'll take my little mouth, suck his tongue, swallow your saliva because I LOVE getting wet & sloppy. I'll wrap my arms and legs around his tongue (like a hand job).... fuck that tongue! My pussy is wet/ready, I do my best to fuck the tip of that gigantic tongue. Flip me over, lick my ass, fuck my ass. When your finish with me tuck me back in your pocket until you want to lick me up again. I'll be waiting!!!!!!!!

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 I jumped in the back seat of the Taxis, I'm greeted by a very handsome black man. No, I never been with a black man but I've thought about it: Are they really the supreme lovers? He look at me in the rear view mirror and I shyly looked back at him. All of a sudden, my body temperature was rising so I slowly and seductively wiggled myself out of my panties.

He watched, licked his lips then the car stopped. He climb in the back seat didn't say a word and devoured my neck with his massive tongue. Flipped me over, separated my butt cheeks, fucked my steamy pussy without mercy and I liked it. Although he did fuck my ass, he teased my asshole with his soft dick......Backseat Thrill!!!!!!

Futuristic Sex

Our theory on futuristic sex:

• There will no longer be human contact
   
  • Every touch will be transport through eye wear or head gear that is connected to the nervous system
  • All actions will be transported from your brain
  • Sex scene can be private or multiple can join
  • Sexual repression will no longer exist
   
  
  Although there's no human contact, you still be able to achieve an orgasm at it's highest height. Brain waves signal your every move to the other person and you feel it just as a person was touching you rather it's rough, lightly, bit, lick etc... A glitch can happen but within seconds everything will be back in process. The power that be is controlling this operation, so they have data of whose fuckin who.......................................................................................................

Sex In The Future

Fuckin Ear

 

When you clean your ear with a Q-Tip, it feels good? Right. I predict the future generations will enjoy ear fuckin. 

 

 The Ear Canal

•  Is about 2.5 centimeters (1 inch) In length
•  0.7 centimeters (0.3 inch) in diameter
•  Made of elastic cartilage

 

 Although this passage way is tiny compared to the vagina, mouth and anus, there's room for satisfaction. 

Ear Fuckin Tips:

• You can start with sucking the dick, get it all wet
• Place the dick to the ear, gradually insert the dick in the ear
• Warning! don't ejaculate in the ear will cause an infection 
• Don't insert pass the Eardrum...Mindful there's a limit of insertion

We at Seductive Art also believe that SEX will be more of a tease meaning not penetration entirety (vagina,mouth, anus, ear) but yet still be able to master an orgasm. The Future Fucker's will put a little in here, a little in there then rub & kiss each other while their bodies are hot, steamy, hard & wet. Repeat until their bodies lose control.......... RELEASE!! Joyful Pleasure

 

What are your thoughts on our prediction for sex in the future ? 

A Quick Tip 4 Sucking Dick

Yeah, there are plenty of women (including myself and some men) in the sex game teaching other women: How To Give Good Head, but for all you teeth scraping chicks & those with a gag reflex that makes you gag if anything goes near the back of your throat.

Use a Popsicle, it's a great way to learn how to form your mouth around the dick without the use of teeth and variation to suck without deep throating but still give amazing head.

The two photos above, you can simply use your tongue on the shaft and the tip of the penis.

You can only suck the tip, go down as far as your mouth can handle but don't forget to how your mouth was formed around the Popsicle when sucking his dick.

You can allow the penis to enter your mouth sideways and allow the dick to jab at your cheek. Dick Sucking Tip: & You can pause and let the dick just sit on your tongue while your mouth get wet & juicy.

For you ladies that want to give your man some extra attention then invite a friend. And Suck It Rill Good!!!!!!!

How Being Overweight Affects Your Sex Life

Accord to Intimina @ www.intimina.com:

Being overweight can kill your libido in more ways than one. Excessive body fat affects not only the production of both estrogen and testosterone (which help you get in the mood) but also decreases the amount of other chemicals your body needs to use those hormones. Which means your body doesn’t have the right hormones and can’t absorb the hormones it does have, often resulting in a lower sex drive.  If you’re worried that your weight is affecting your libido talk to your doctor about the best way to get back to a healthier weight, a balanced diet and committed fitness routine can do wonders for your libido as well.

An a host of other sex blogger has the same conclusion that being overweight you will have a low libido but I know something that these sex blogger are unaware of, and that is Heavenly Heavy Sistah's has a strong sex drive and very confident with their sexuality. Here are some comments by men that I interviewed about Heavenly Heavy Sistahs:

• Sexually open
• Got some good pu$$y 
• Strong in the bed
• Feels soft & fluffy
• Give good head

Heavenly Heavy Sistah's that I know are very strong, passionate & secure with their body image and their sexuality. Now, it makes me wonder, white women that are Heavenly Heavy, views on sex differ from black woman views on sex, I say this because I bet that most of the of women that participate in these surveys were white.

Whatever your size feel good about yourself and release yourself sexually to your partner.

                                                    Have a Fucking Good Time 

 

Ancient Chinese Secret

This ancient Chinese secret has been practice over 2000 year and that technique is the use of the Jade Egg. The jade egg was use only by the Empress and concubines to give long lasting, pleasurable love making to the Emperor (it was not a practice for common folk). This majestic stone was use for longevity, youth energy and to awaken sensuality.

There are three different sizes the smallest 21mm, medium 26mm, large 40mm. The large size is for the beginner to get you aware of your muscle by maneuvering the egging up and down. The smallest is for the expert. The jade egg strengthens the pelvic floor and created blood flow to all areas of the vagina; as a result, heighten sexual pleasure.

You should rub your clitoris or nipples to lubricate your vaginal walls and slowly (insert the large end first) and once its inside you should do pelvic exercise like the one below:

Up and down: 3 sets of 10 
Lift you hips, rock right & left: 3 set of 10
Sit with legs folded: inhale for 4 & exhale for 4: 3 sets of 10

Then you start to work your vaginal muscles, by moving the jade egg up and down also known as the Kegel exercise (press as if you have to pee)...By the way, Kegel exercise was name after a doctor that was teaching women to hold their pee during pregnancy. 

Start with you vaginal exercise by moving it up & down, once you feel comfortable, you can tie a cloth to each end of the string and add an small object (NEVER ANYTHING OVER 10 lbs) and move it up and down. Start with 3 sets of 10. I don't recommend sleeping with the jade egg inside.

Just like developing muscle through physical exercise, you have to maintain and weekly regiment.

                                                 Let the power of love making awaken

Tricks, Making Your Own SEXy Costume

The SEXy School Girl Costume, instead of spending $$ on a school girl costume, make your own with things you have at home and add some delicious treats that he would sure to love.

What you would need:

* Pleated skirt
* Fitted baby tee
* Ribbons for hair (2 ponytail wig, optional)
* Nylon socks
* Stripper heels or kitten heel (2 inch heels)
* Nerdy glasses
* ruffled panties

If your pleated skirt is as long as this one, cut it short an if you can sew a hem fine. If not, no worries you can give the tough school girl look (men like when you are sexually aggressive).

Baby tee make sure it's form fitting, once you have it on, take a pen make a marking to where your nipples are (of course, no bra) then cut a hole exposing your nipples. SEXy tip:

* Let your fingers run under some water, place your wet fingers on your hard nipples and sprinkle sugar on your nipples. He would enjoy the sweet taste of your nipples

Place your hair in one ponytail with a ribbon at the center or 2 ponytails with  a ribbon on each ponytail (if you have a long wig, simply place the hair in your desired ponytail and place a ribbon or ribbons)

Nylon socks you can purchase at the 99¢ Store. The socks with the ruffles that fold under....super SEXy super cute

Heels are total up to you, just make such you are confident & comfort when choosing your heel selection.

 Any eye wear will do...even shades, if your going for the tough girl look

 Ruffled panties you can get from any store that's over stock with low price items

 *Chew gum

Most importantly don't forget your submissive talk/mannerism or tough mannerism

                                                        Have A Fuckin Good Night
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Tricks & Treats For Your Freak Him Bag

Halloween is a great way to fill your Freak Him bag and a great to save money when you want your clothes rip off/make a pretty mess. For example:

A SEXy Officer, you can cut hole throughout the body suit making it super SEXy. Hand cuffs you can get for $10 compare to $25-$50 you will spend at a sex toy store and there playful meaning easy to get out of.

Gloves.  Every woman should own a pair of satin gloves there soft to the touch and it gives a great feel when giving hand job. 

 * SEXy Trick: Add some lubricant in the palm of the glove and work that dick.

Fishnets can be expensive but during Halloween season you can rack up on a varies of styles for the fraction of the price.

Trick & Treat Tips

Eyelashes: There are an array styles you can purchase that will make your eyes look seductive and make you feel SEXy. If you never worn eyelashes before eyelashes feel heavy and weird so I would suggest that you just get a basic eyelash first. How to apply:

• remove the eyelash from the casing by gently pulling the longer end of the eyelash
• place glue on the rim of the eyelash, not too much (the part that was attached to the casing)
• place the eyelash on your eyelid getting as close as you can to the rim of your eyelash
• once the eyelash is placed, close your eye for 10 seconds
• repeat on the other eye

Wigs

Can transform you into total new person, so when selecting a wigs go for something outrageous and don't worry about it coming off during sex, it all comes off anyway. Here Are some suggestions:

 

Yes, it's a lot of work and this is only the beginning. If you want to keep your relationship intact sexually you have to apply The Art of Seductive, Geisha, Seductive Art (by me) and Escort approach to sex.
  

• When tacking a wigs, use bobby pins around the crown of the head to hold the wig in place

                         I'll be giving Trick & Treat tips during the week of October 13-16, 2015

Make A Bitch Beg ( a message to men)

For women that are adventuring into their sexually (18-25 year old women) need to be handle with sensitivity and gentleness, but a woman at any age that is secure in her sexually, want a man to be a man when fucking her. Not overly aggressive but aggressive enough that lets her know she is getting fucked by a real man. For example:

• Kiss her romantically, get her caught in your web of passion then out of nowhere tug on her hair
• When penetrating her from the back (dogg style) grab her ankle firmly and press forward
• While kissing and licking her neck, grab her ass firmly and shake it up & down
• When she is in ecstasy, slap her firmly an if she gives a sign of being in pain, place small kisses on her face
• When licking the pussy and she's enjoying the pleasure walk away and when you return make her beg for more
• When fucking her get the pussy wet & happy, stop fucking her, give the impression that you are about to eat the pussy, but only allow you lips to brush softly against the clit then place your dick back inside and fuck her GOOD
• When fucking missionary press her knees to her shoulders by interlocking your arms with her legs (make sure she is comfortable by simply asking) and swirl around passionately in the pussy 
• Give her a massage, once she's relaxed make a fist, press your fist firm on her buttock and rotate your fist outer

                                                         She Won't Be, To Proud To BEG!

Sexual Indulgence

Do you run way or emerge yourself, when sexually energy is electrified? Well, I'll share a personal story:

I was going to the gym regularly and there was this guy who mind his own business and worked out (not bothering female gym goers). I notice him and was instantly attracted to him. His body was a master piece of fine craftsmanship the kind you would sink your teeth in but I was in a relationship (bummer). We would catch each other looking at one another but would quickly look away. A month had past and we were still communicating with our body but failed to be vocal. I got up the courage and said "Hello" he voice had placed me in a trance, my eyes were fixated on his, my pussy was moist and I want him to bend me over and fuck me right there for everyone to witness hot/steamy passion. Our conversation was brief but it linger in me for hours. When I returned home, my boyfriend and I had sex but my mind was on the gym guy with every stroke, kiss and touch it was as if I was fucking the gym guy. My boyfriend said, "you really wanted this dick"..... If he only knew.

Now, the gym guy and I conversations are more elaborate and I find myself wanting to touch him, so I would casually touch his massive arms. He asked me to go swimming, I agreed. My mind was racing, you have a good man, I want to feel him deep inside of me and I know we would make sweet love. I contemplated on what my next move would be. The decision, I made, was not to show up because I was in love with a good man. However, I regret NOT indulging in my sexual passion; although, I was in love with a good man he didn't satisfy me sexually!


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HIV

Danny Pintauro has come out to the public that he has been HIV positive for 12 years and the only reason he came out to the public, because a magazine has gotten their hands on his personal medical records and threaten to publish without his consent (which is wrong on so many levels). What I found interesting, Daniel (he prefers to be called Daniel) wanted to be adventures sexually, consume Crystal Meth and engaged in unsolicited sex with a stranger.

The lesson here,  DRUGS and have casual sex with a stranger without protection can ruin your life.                                       

                                                Make wise and Responsible Decision

                                        Sex is more sensual with someone that you care for




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Desiree West Compilation 2, Free Vintage Porn: xHamster: Watch Desiree West Compilation 2 at xHamster.com! Some of these look like they were originally 8mm loops-I'll have to tell you about the first time I was shoplifting porn mags...







First African American Sextress,  Desiree West she began her career in the 70's and in the mid 90's West was inducted into the XRCO hall of fame (X-rate Critics Organization). 



                                                          Masturbation, is an Order!

Are There White Men With Big Dicks?

If you are reader of my blogger, you know that I have worked as a hostess at a swinger's club. I have seen lots & lots of dicks..long & skinny, short & thick, small in width and length, thick shaft with a little tip etc... Yeah, I've seen lots of dicks. A white guy came to the swinger's club where I worked and his dick was BIG (Black Man Dick, BIG). It was thick at the shaft and the tip so one of the ladies of night measured his dick an it was 10 inches long. Of course, I had to make conversation with the white man with the big dick. 

• (ME) Are you in a relationship?
• (Big Dick White Man) Yes, and my girlfriend knows that I'm at a swinger's club.
• (Me) So, you two are swinger?
• (Big Dick White Man) Yeah, sometimes we play
• (ME) Your dick is your best friend? How does it feel to have a big dick and be a white man (He starts to play with dick)
• (Big Dick White Man) Yeah. It's a part of me but as a young man... when in the locker room white dude's use to like to see it and wish there dick was big

Our conversation was over cause he was about to fuck some chick. There are white men with big dicks but I believe it's a very small percent.

A girlfriend (black girl) of mine was fuckin this white guy and she said, "The white guy dick was bigger than both of her baby daddy's."  WOW! 

                                                         Big Dick White Men, O......K

                                            Ladies, do a pretty dick make you want to suck it?
 

Would Teach Your Child About Being a Great Lover?

In a previous post, I raised the question, are you concern that your child will be become a great lover? Well, I am and I plan on teaching my child by using this format:

• Erogenous area on the human body (with a graph of the human body). 
• Express the importance of caressing and kissing that kissing is learned through trail and error.  
• Sex is not forceful and as the young man, you should relax and allow the young lady to come to you. 
• Always use protection
• Penetration should be slow the female more than likely would be a virgin and sex can be painful if she's not fully stimulated
• Keep you mouth and hands active at all times
• Don't be embarrass to groan and moan when it feels good
• Make sure that the person care about you  dating, talking, holding hands, spending quality time together
• Ask, what's your thoughts on sex?
• Male: Make the female feel special buy flowers, write a poem or anything sweet & creative
• Female: Don't accept disrespect  having sex in the staircase or in a dirty house etc...
• Don't use drugs or alcohol

                   This is the teaching method, I will use to teach my child to be a great LOVER

                                                            What are you thoughts?

                                 The sexual revolution will not be televise, it will be Verbalize

Theories on interracial sex

Black men want sex from white white women:

• To get back at white men for all the injustice he has faced
• White women have a track record of the being good at sucking dick and they swallow it
• Just to experience sex with a white woman

Black women and sex with white men:

• If the white man is financially stable
• She has been mentally manipulated 

White men want sex from black women:

• He wants to experience sex from the original woman
• He want humiliate her sexually
• He has a secret attraction to black women

White woman want sex from black men:

• To experience the big black dick 

                                                      
                                                     What's your theory on interracial sex?

Feet Pleasure

The feet can get ignore during sex but after reading this the feet will no longer be forgotten. You don't have to study reflexology to entice your partner feet; however, reflexology teaches the heel have nerve connection to the penis while the outer and inner of the foot nerve connection to the vagina. As individual as we are, our body chemistry is different and responds differently to every touch/lick/suck/bite so it's up to you to explore your lover's feet to place him or her under your spell.

A friend (and she brought along a guy friend) and I went out dancing after hours of dancing in heels, I sat down. My friend suggested that I take me shoes off so that her friend could massage my feet. I agreed, when he placed his powerful hands around my sore feet my body surrender instantly. With every squeeze, gentle rub, sharp pounding from his fist my pussy got hot and was ready to be penetrated. Then something amazing happened! He took finger one and half inches away from my foot, cascade his finger along my foot and I felt this magical tingle that made my pussy erupt....All along they were trying to seduce me into a threesome. 


I was getting a pedicure the sponge that was used had a pointy abrasive and she scrub and scrub my feet until I had no control over my body. My head went left then right, chills formed on my skin and finally I had an orgasm. Touching the feet or using a pedicure tool can send your lover over the edge which can lead to heavenly sex.

                                                   Don't Forget To Pleasure The Feet

Eye Contact During Sex

Once the penis enters the vagina you two become one and that unremarkable feeling embark you two on a passionate journey. While on this sexual quest your energy intensive, heart rate increase and  blood boils. Looking your partner in the eyes during sex will only magnify your fondness along with  let's your partner know that you are confident and willing to perform any sexual duty that is required.

Eye contact heighten your love making an I used the term love making...not sex or fucking but love making. I believe that once both parties marvels in one others eyes during love making there's a connection between the parties (not saying that having sex or fucking feels less great) but LOVE is circulating the room. When orgasms are achieved and you two gaze in each others eyes it's like your floating out in space...powerless because you two surrender yourself in the moment of ecstasy.

                                                  What Your Take, On Eye Contact?

A Fuck Buddy

A fuck buddy is a person that you have sex with when your hot and horny. There's a steamy insatiable connection between these two people that can't be denied and when they get together fireworks blast off in all directions. However, when you have a fuck buddy relationship you have to limit your emotions... only release emotions when you two are wrapped in sizzling hot sex, this can be tricky to achieve when you crave sex from that one particular person that quench your thirst. It's all about having control of your mind, understanding the relationship and releasing yourself in the moment.

With a fuck buddy you relieve sexual teasing, able to express yourself sexually without the feeling of being judged and if your personalities clash but the pussy and dick speak a language of it own....PERFECT! In my opinion, that the best fuck buddy, you can stand their ass but you fuck the shit out of them.

A close female friend (that will remain nameless) thought she could build a fuck buddy relationship with a man that's in a committed relationship. She would flirt him but he would always give her the cold shoulder. One night while having drinks with co workers she continued her advances (maybe the alcohol was getting to him) and he agreed to fuck her. Just like she had imaged it, his sex was passionate, his dick was big, she had orgasm after orgasm and it was so good she swallowed it. The following day, she would look in his direction but he would completely ignored her. Once she had a chance to speak to him alone, she asked, "can we link up again?" He reply, "You know, I'm in a relationship, it was just a one night thang."......Awkward!

In my finding, married couples that share the same concept of sex have fuck buddies and men & women can be in a fuck buddy relationship but clueless about it. A fuck buddy relationship is a great relationship if you only want to fuck but make that clear to the another person so that he or she can agree or disagree to a fuck buddy relationship.


                                                                   Talk About SEX







 

He Put Something In the Pudding

When the new swirled concerning Bill Cosby rape allegation, I was skeptic. My thoughts were "Is this another white woman falsely accusing a black man of rape, are these women in there right mind? (some of the women looked... not mentally stable) and it's 30 years later, why now?." Like roaches that only comes out when the lights are off, woman after woman had a story. Now, I'm thinking. Is this a set up to crumble Bill's legacy? After reading countless stories an every story practically the same, the joke Bill made about slipping women Spanish Fly and Wendy Williams disturbing verbal encounter with Bill after she read a story about his sexual deviants, my perspective changed. Dam! it's true and that's awful.


Beverly Johnson has written a book and one chapter in her book is dedicated to her encounter with Bill. She explained, "how he placed something in my drink, I passed out but he didn't rape me". It felt as if she is riding the Bill Cosby sex scandal to make a profit (her story didn't seem authentic).


Some men that gain money, power and fame can have a sense of entitlement as if women are their personal sex toys. In Bill case, I think, he wanted sex from any woman that crossed his path but instead of the wine and dine, lets have an affair, he would drug these women and have his way....Disgusting!

Bill, can not be prosecuted due to the long length of time but I hope that these women that were sexual assaulted feel mental and spiritual liberated & empowered, because you are helping victims that has been sexually violated come forth............ Bravo!

Disturbia

Jared Fogle (the Subway spokesperson) is the latest pedophile to be arrest an it's a joyful day because he will NOT be able to cause harm to a child mentally/ sexually. All involved should be prosecuted to the highest level of the law. If you think about it, Jared (not making excuses) was an obese man, probably spend a large amount of time alone, long for affection from the opposite sex... this is all speculation but it could have triggered his sexually thoughts towards children. I wonder, what his childhood was like? If he thinks, what he did was wrong? Do he believes, because he paid for sex that involved a child that it was consensual sex? Is he afraid of women? Many more questions, to get in the mind of a pedophile. After the question an answer period, would we as a society be able to detect similar behavior patterns? To prevent this from happening to innocent children.


There was an article in the New York Time that read "Pedophilia, a Disorder, Not a Crime". I agree that it's a disorder but disagree that it's not a crime. Children that has sex for money is under the umbrella of a sick & twist mind of an adult, that's a crime. 


There are villages in African that gives their daughter's (these girls range in age from 12 to 14 years old and hold the title, Wive) to men that has money so that their daughter can receive an education along with the chance to live a better life. A friend and I read this article, he's African and he said, "they don't have sex with them". I replied, "Are you crazy? If that man calls this girl (I'm pointing at a man that looks as if he's in is 50's and preteen girl) his wive, he's having sex with her and it's a crime and he's a pedophile". I understand that each culture has it's customs but I strongly don't agree with it.


We can't leave out the women that have sex with minor's and in all the arresting cases, the women were white (just making an obvious observation) they're the ones that got caught but being a pedophile is not racial discriminated. I have a male black friend, he explained while in high school (his teacher who is white). Told him, "his teenage girlfriend was cheating on him and she offer to take him home, but made a detour at her house. She left him in the living room and to his surprise when the teacher returned she was wearing lingerie and they fucked (his words)." I got the sense from his story that his ego was boosted at that time but there was a sense of sadness outlining the story. Another male black friend shared his story of a babysitter (babysitter was a Hispanic teenager) and he at the time was in elementary school. Details are graphic. He shared, "she would tell him to suck her clit, she would suck his dick and he put his penis in her pussy." The result, as an adult male he was abusive to women. It doesn't matter if the pedophile is male or female, the result is psychological problem on the child.

 
The mental distress and sexually frustration will be unbearable but manageable if the child receives support an seek professional help. 

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                                       I hope everyone have a pleasantly SEXy summer


There has been not so SEXy current events happening. Kim Davis the clerk that refuse to grant a joyful same sex couple a marriage licence. Everyone is entitled to there personal beliefs but you can't impose your beliefs on others especially in the work place. Kim, you have to learn to separate! I'm sure you are aware, same sex couple has the RIGHT to marry legally (Hooray). Your position is morally and personally, between morals and personal is understanding (seeing the big picture). I get it, stand up for what you believe in but having your freedom taken, job taken and labeled as a discriminator.... Was it worth it? You were at work, so do your job!

Sex can be a complicate issue especially for those living in the closet...afraid to share their sexually preference with family & friends. Your actions could have push a person dealing with this issue in a deep depression, ponder that. I wonder: If you have a child that was gay, what would your stands be?

                                                                                                                                                                       

Ashley Madison. First of all, I personally believe and static show that people in long term relationship cheat (not all but a large majority and some doesn't have to be in a long term relationship, it depends on their sexually appetite). First of all, one of the founders had an account and once caught was so disgusted with himself an so apologetic for the hurt he caused his family. If your married to a man that created a business on "Life is Short. Have An Affair" I would assume that, as a couple that you two would live a swinger/swap/fucker buddy type of relationship. Sometime people can be so delusional. Secondly, there were men that committed suicide (RIP), I didn't read upon these men but I assume that they had to be apart of a religious group or up held a leadership position in a church (I'm assuming). I can't think of any other reason as to why these men would take their life because of cheating. Talk about it, make a decision, move on. That's easier said than done. Third, a couple that are blogger's or youtuber's they video tape they entire life an on one espsode they were trying to have another baby but the wife had a miscarriage. With all the Ashley Madsion exposing these cheaters, the husband was located on Ashley Madison with an account. I personally think that it was a set up, so that they could get some publicity and every blogger wants that. And he apologize on their blog, the same old song. Most people have a seriously hard time expressing themselves sexually to their husband, wife etc... but it truly is a conversation that you have to have. One of the problems, once in a committed relationship, people feel that they have ownership of a that person sexually but the fact of the matter is you don't. Once you let go of you insecurity and ownership behavior you two and have a rewarding sex life. 

                                              You Love Apples but a Pear is Good to Eat too.