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Role Play

Role Play is a great way to add mystery an excitement to your sex life, which will keep the fire burning. I suggest playing the role of a dominatrix soft (I say soft, because your not a professional dominatrix & to play it safe not extreme) but yet strong, because the be a dominatrix you have to come across as a bitch that takes no shit. First, you have to dress the part because your not a dominatrix by trade you don't have to buy pricey latex garments, whips & bondage gear. You can simply purchase a fishnet cat suit or a lace panty & bra set with fishnet thigh-high stocking and stripper shoes (if you don't have a pair, I suggest you get a pair) also use your panties or his neck tie for covering the eyes and bondage. Secondly, make up & hair and I'm sure you have a wig in you closet a long straight one or an afro wig etc..Your make up should be dramatic, heavy eye make up (cat eye), red or black lip stick. Third, create an ambiance you can simply lower the lights, add candles in the corner of the room with a chair dead center. Finally, you have to play the part.... get into character. Keep in mind, you are a bitch that takes no shit and he is going to do what the fuck you tell him to do. Practice in front of the mirror giving him direction. To loosen up have a cocktail or smoke some weed and go him BITCH!

Ladies, you would be surprise to know how many men (Yes, black men) that like to be dominated. Think about this, men are in charge in providing for their family and that can weigh on a person and to have sex with someone that take charge and they (the man) gets to be vulnerable it and makes them feel like a little boy again and you get to be Momma.