Ending Child Marriages

I recently read a story of child marriage that are arranged by the parents in Tanzania and the woman that leading the pack to stop child marriages is Rebeca Gyumi. 

 I had a conversation with a man that from Africa about this subject and he said, "The man don't have sex with the girl."  My reply, "Are You Dumb? If a man is calling a girl his wife, believe it, he is fucking her."

 The girls age ranges from 12-16 years old and the issue that pledge this girl after the becoming a grown man's wife are: 

• Illiteracy
• Likely to die while giving birth/suffer internal damage from giving birth
• Don't have a true sense of SELF to be an activate person in society

This cruel tradition has been going on for a very long time but, lucky, Rebeca Gyumi see the problem and putting action behind it to stop this injustice against girls.

We live in such a sick world that controlled by the power of money and that a parent would sell their child to a man so she can live a so called better life. Regardless, if child marriage is tradition, where is your mind (the parent) to be OK with this? Because child marriage has been passed down, from generation to generation (I know, in back of ones mind, one has to think morally this is FUCKING WRONG) maybe it's normality of life. But, Fuck That! 

Continue the fight Rebeca Gyumi!

Females has suffered at the hands of a male for too long and it has to STOP!

Teaching ESS in Flint

I'll be teaching ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson at Chica's Fitness in Flint

Heels are required but if you can't wear heels sneakers are fine. Select a length of heel that you can walk gracefully in. For the first 15 minutes we will workout HARD then we put on our heels get SEXY.

I'm a dancer trained in:

• African
• Belly dance
• Samba
• Caribbean
• a Burlesques dancer
• I created & teach ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson

Grab you girlfriend, daughter, mother yo mothers mother and let's work that body!

Something New To Do 

Sexual Inappropriateness

There has been so many sexual misconduct allegation that has made headlines. Let's back it up a bit, white men has been disrespecting women as history dictates:

• White woman were not allowed to vote
• Only allowed to do quot on quot woman's work such as Receptionist/Child Care etc...
• Raped black woman (In most cases, I believe the woman knew but wasn't allowed to say anything)
• Raped black men (when African people were enslaved)

 Harvey Weinstein, Tom Ashbrook, Gavin Baker, Matt Lauer and the list goes on and on. All of these men hold a position of power. In this society we hold people in great regards that has more money than average folks and with this power it makes the wealthy man feels as if he can do and get ANYTHING he so desires. Women we need stand up and say something immediately when we come face to face sexual inappropriateness. I understand that this is easier said than done because so much is at stake your job,  your reputation and your sanity. We have been programed (when I say "we" I'm referring to the general public with the focus on women) to not believe the woman and that alone can make it difficult for a woman to come forth along with the shock. However, there has been plenty of false allegations. With the stock comes the blaming of one self, anxiety and confusing but we have to put this in perspective and realize that it's your fault and fight back.

My theory on why a man would sexual violate a woman:

• Power 
• Family structure lack morality & values
• Didn't have great social skills as a teenager/young adult
• Don't know how interact with the opposite sex
• Don't know how to satisfy a woman sexual
• They are insecure about their dick size  
• They were abused themselves
• Mental illness

Whatever the reason, the shit is wrong. Sex is beautiful thing to be shared between two people or three people (HEY!)....Consensual sex!

We have to start by teaching your sons and daughter how to interact with the opposite sex... Social Skills and to be a leader of self

ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson

I'll be teaching ESS in Flint, MI Dec 27th. It's a great work off the holiday food and be sexy while doing it. We are going to tap into our femininity & sensuality through movements. Bring whatever length of HEEL you can walk gracefully in, but if you can't wear heels you can wear sneaker.

Look forward to seeing!

 

Dance Bio:

I'm a dancer trained in African, Belly dance, Caribbean, Samba, A Burlesques dancer and I created & teach ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance.

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My Book QUICKIE coming soon!

 My book Quickie and below is the cover, do you like? It will be available as an ebook by the end of 2017....Guarantee to get you HOT and want to FUCK. Five short erotic stories. I was very much inspired by the author Zane.

The Erotic Exotic Jenny Jackson! The 1st Black PlayMate

                                            Such a Beautiful Black Woman 

March 1965 the first African- American Playmate was Jenny Jackson. Jenny twin sister Janis also worked as a Playboy bunny in the Playboy Club. Jenny worked as a model and modeled for Ebony Fashion Fair. 

 Jenny Jackson interview with the Huffington Post:

Jackson said the significance of her role in breaking down racial boundaries did not dawn on her at the time.

“I never looked at it like that. I guess I was the first, but in Chicago we had black doctors, dentists and businessmen living in our neighborhood,” she said. 

Related: How Hugh Hefner championed gay rights and racial equality

Jackson also said she had felt ashamed of the photographs for decades until she went to a reunion with other playmates more than 30 years after her centerfold was published. 

“My mother didn’t say anything and my father didn’t say anything, except that he got a key to the [Playboy] club,” Jackson told The Huffington Post. “But it was a shock to my sisters because I didn’t tell anyone until after I took the picture. And I didn’t feel proud of it; I was kind of ashamed of it for a long time, until I went to the Playmate reunion in 1999. And I’m glad that I went, because it was like a closure.”

Jackson told The Huffington Post she was no longer ashamed of her past. She also said she not have a particularly close relationship with Hefner, describing him simply as “the boss.”

I was extremely excited to see this sistah, Jenny as the first black Playmate not because she graced the cover of Playboy magazine. But for the simple fact that she was comfortable in her own skin as a black woman. With so many of us black women having issues loving the skin we're in, then you, Jenny Jackson come along with the courage to take it off (my kind of girl) and show the world black is indeed beautiful. I'm sure their were many black women in 1965 that was proud of Jenny Jackson, like I am now in 2017. However, she do fit the white woman body type. I realize that this took place in 1965 and black women in all her glory of ass, hips, thighs and natural hair wasn't mainstream acceptance (now, we got bitches building themselves a black woman's body) and still really isn't... Black women love the skin your in, your Beautiful. 

I salute you, Jenny Jackson!

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Ines Rau 1st Trangender PlayMate

She is beautiful

Barriers in LGBTQ community has been broken, the first transgender female is gracing the cover of Playboy magazine. Her name is Ines Rau.

 in my mind:

After reading Ines name, my Grandmom popped in my mind and her name is Inell (see the similarity). My fondest memory of my Grandmom is her asking me this question: "Why are you so nasty?" ( I was in a play in my hometown of Flint, MI at the Whiting Auditorium which is beautiful) There's no wonder that, I'm in the sex industry....as a Sex Blogger, Intimacy Coach and a Author. Sweet Memories, 💖 U Grandmom!

back to the story:

 In an interview with Huffpost, Ines Rau said, "It’s a salvation to speak the truth about yourself, whether it’s your gender, sexuality, whatever. The people who reject you aren’t worth it. It’s not about being loved by others; it’s about loving yourself.”

I can't begin to understand what it's like to be giving a gender and feel has if I'm the opposite gender. However, Her words are a masterpiece of words, words of FREEDOM, to be you and not to be afraid  to be fuckin U. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people across the board that can't be themselves because of society rules- Malala Yousafzai and many other women like her. But these women didn't allow society to dictate to them who they are as an individual/ a woman. Congratulation! Ines Rau for not being afraid to express yourself!

I have a question for you Ines, do you tell a man that's interested in you intimately that you are transgender?

Black men, how would you handle meeting a woman, and she tells you she's transgender?

Beat The Pu$$y Up

I don't know how many times, I have to say this: Beating up the pu$$y only drys the pu$$y up unless you have gotten the pu$$y EXTREMELY wet & hot. Yes, it's understandable if your about to cum because the force of penetration is inevitable. However, in the mist of sex penetration should be switched up from:
fast to slow

• Circular motion

• Thrust deeply

• Pull the dick out

• Let the dick muscle work in the pu$$y

• Make her fuck the dick

• Any other tricks you may have

Not a constant bang, bang, bang that shit hurts and it's not pleasurable for the woman, unless she want to get fucked like that from begininng to end. The pu$$y is to be handle with care not abused.

Have Pleasurable Time Fucking

Interview With A Male Prostitute

I had the pleasure of meeting a male whore (he doesn't like when I call him that, he likes to be called a gigolo. But fuck that he sells that ass, yo ass is a hoe) and the interview went like this:

Me: I assume you have a big dick (he's black, of course)

Whore: Length & width

Me: Where are you from?

Whore: I'm Jamaican but I'm cut from a different cloth

Me: The stereotype here in NYC of Jamaican men is that they don't know to fuck and they fuck fast

Me: How did you get in the field of a sex worker?

Whore: It was introduce to me, by a woman, that knew women that wanted to get their fantasy fulled and I had the tools.......... A woman taught me to not just fuck but whine when I'm in the pu$$y

Me: What about kissin, lickin & suckin?

Whore: Kissin, lickin & suckin is a part of sex, right? There's no walls I can't break down. I break it right down. No limits. No holding back.

Me: How do you handle when a client catch feelings?

Whore: I can't mix feelings with my money, so she get what you ask for the total package. From the tip to the root
(he didn't really answer the question)

Me: Because your giving it to her from the tip to the root are you able to keep the pu$$y wet for the duration of sex

Whore: If your not keep the pu$$y wet & moist your not doing a good job, right?
(I guess, he keep the pu$$y wet throughout sex)

Me: Do you kiss?

Whore: I give it all, why should I hold back?

Me: What's the most money you made?

Whore: Four racks. A client told somebody about my work and brought two people and we had a foursome.

Me: How were able to handle three women at one time and keep the juices flowin

Whore: U can't be selfish, you gotta share the love and I got a lot to share..... Kiss one, fuckin one, one is eating one, finger poppin one

Me: It's is a team effort

Whore: Team work is dream work. Then I switch them around

Me: Because each pu$$y has a different temperature, level of wetness and tightness, when having a foursome is there one pu$$y you like best?

Whore: There's one you would always like the best

Me: You were married before

Whore: I was married for 7 years

Me: Were you hoeing when you were married?

Whore: I was a one burner

Me: So you can be faith?

Whore: Yes, every man can. A woman has to know how to keep a man and keep him interested. Once you two fulfilled each other fantasy, where she going to go? Where is he going to go?.........I'm like Picasso when it comes to sex

Ladies would you pay for the dick? 

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     Seductive Art with Intimacy Coach, Rill

     Theme: Igniting Black Woman Sexual Power (round table discussion)

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ESS Erotic, Sensual, Seductive dance lesson (bring heels) 

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 * Erotic Art 
 * Henna Artist
 * Amazing Jewelry Artist
 * Wine & Hors d 'oeuvre
 * Great Music
 * Good Vibes
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How 2 Get a Bitch, Blac Chyna Style

Everybody is on this Blac Chyna & Rob situation. Blac Chyna was in a relationship with Tyga and a friends with Kim and Kim's sister Kylie started dating Blac Chyna baby daddy, Tyga. Kim & Kylie brother, Rob started dating Blac Chyna and they have baby together..... Now that we got that out of the way.

The negative comments came rolled in basically calling Blac Chyna a hoe and gold digger. Chyna & Rob both stated that Rob went after Chyna, with that being said, how the hell does that makes her a hoe/gold digger? He came at her. Do I believe Blac Chyna seen Rob liking her as an opportunity? Absolutely (and she worked that shit). What a way to get back at a bitch that took your man, fuck her brother and make him love you. Gotcha! On top of everything Blac Chyna has a baby by Rob. Blac Chyna is FOREVER apart of the Kardashian khan. Boom! Boom! Boom!........ Blac Chyna crushed Kylie. 

 I don't believe that Blac Chyna was attracted to Rob and I believe she saw dollars signs. Ya'll need to stop playin, women like a man or a mother of a man that got bread. Political correctness: 

• Women want financial security
• And other things 2 but financial security is important    

On top of all this a black man chose a white woman (body/face reconstructed, Kylie was a fo real, fo real a basic looking bitch before all the plastic surgery) over a black woman. At the end Blac Chyna is the winner (at least that how it looks on the outside) 

I'm so *TeamBlacChyna. She took full advantage of situation. Girl, you did that! But the disturbing thing is, Blac Chyna stripper name was Cream, and she named her daughter Dream. That's trashy, hood, inappropriate and flat out wrong. 

How have you gotten at a bitch that interpreting your relationship?....Please on violence

A Fun Sex Story

There's a married couple that has been together for a loooonnng time and they still have great sex, but this night was hilariously. 

It was a Saturday a time to unwind from the stressful work week, so they gets a little twisted.. weed, a pill or two and a cocktail. As the day turn to night and they starts to get hot the wife started sucking his dick an it was so good that he went off in feel good land. Then something strange happen that made the husband come out of feel good land and back into reality and when he did that he discovered this high bitch had fell asleep with his dick in her mouth. He shout's "BITCH" she jumps up pull her pants down and say "come on then." The husband was so angry that he said, "Bitch get the fuck out of here! Trying to play me like a John!" I laughed so fuckin hard.

Do you have a funny sex story? We would love to hear it.

Tutorial: Walking In Heels Sexy & Confident

Vacation

On a break until Sept 2017. However, I will post here & there. Enjoy your summer keep it sexy!

Technique, Heeling Walking

Okay, Ladies! I have seen some many women struggling walking in heels, so I have a techniques to help you ladies walk sexy, confident and relax while walking in a kitten heel, four heels or six inch stiletto.

• Buy a well made shoe re-frame from buying cheap heels (cheap heels tend to lend forward which makes you perfecting walking in heels difficult...NO WEDGE HEELS)
• Purchase a half size bigger not only does gives your feet room for comfortably and your less likely gain a corn or bunion  
• If you are not yet comfortable walking on a smooth surface practice on the carpet or rug
• I would suggest for new comers to practice in a four inch heels and on carpet or rug

You have you heels on your ready, Let Go!

• First: Stand up tall, shoulders relaxed, head forward
• Second: Don't look down
• Third: Take a deep breath
• Step (start walking) don't over think, just walk
• Once you feel comfortable play attention to your posture
• Repeat 

 I will follow up with a Video

Good Pu$$y Bitches

 

 

All women claims to have the best pu$$y. Your pu$$y might be tight, wet and you fuck back. However, for a man when he gets new pu$$y, that's good pu$$y, because it's new pu$$y. I want women to feel that they do have good pu$$y(I hope you represent that in the bedroom), but from a mans perspective "good pu$$y is new pu$$y!" I have heard this phrase from soooooo many men. Men that are in a relationship go and fuck another chick just to experience new pu$$y. It has nothing (sometimes) to do with not being satisfied with you..... it's sexual greed.

What That Mouth Do?

Here are some celebrities that looks like they can eat a pu$$y/a$$ up or suck a good dick. However, just because it looks like they perform a good oral job doesn't mean it's true (looks can be deceiving)   Can you figure out which mouth belongs to which celebrity:

 Every time I see this man mouth I'm like, "It looks like you can sit you pu$$y on his mouth and he will eat the pu$$y up. Who is this?

This man looks like he can eat the pu$$y & a$$ at the same dam time. Who is this?

This lady goes way, she looks like she can tongue the hell out of an a$$ & lick pu$$y until the pu$$y is emerge in it's wetness & suck a good dick Who is this?

This lady looks like she can tongue fuck the hell out of an a$$ and a suck a good dick. Who is this?

This lady mouth is nice & wide and it looks like she will suck a dick raw. Who is this?

This man is not only SEXy but he looks like he would suck the pu$$y until all your love juices comes down. Who is this?

This lady look like she can slam a dick all the way down her throat. Who is this?

Hint: LL Cool J, Cardi B, Fantasia,Vincent Herbert, Busta Rhymes, Miley Cyrus, Rill (seductress)

Female Related Issues (Tampons, Pads & $ex Toys)

I never claim to know EVERY fuckin thing about all things related to sex, sexuality but I'm glad to report that I just found out about tampons. Listen, ladies don't fuck with tampons and how the hell are these company allowed to have this product on the market. Today, I was listening to the Breakfast Club, Tiffany Haddish was a guest and she was telling her tampon story she said, " I went into toxic shock because of the CSS." (CSS is what in rat poison). She said, "her tongue swollen and shrunk, her skin burned and eyes sunk in." That's fucked up! Fuck tampons! All these chemicals that are used are disgusting and you know how your body would reaction to these chemicals. Label reading is important but then again almost everything has a chemical component. Crazy!

 My pu$$y had an allergy reaction to pads. After my period an using pads my pu$$y would itch and I have developed  discoloration at my vulva and between my labia (lips) and the crease of my thigh. I was using a dildo (not while I was on my period....before learned about chemicals associated with some sex toys) a jelly like dildo that was made of a harmful chemical called phtalates and the pads, I believe contribute to the discoloration of my pu$$y (my sistah said, "I got a Micheal Jackson pu$$y"). Whenever I take my panties for a new man I have to explain because it looks fuckin weird....It's important to teach girls to look at their pu$$y and dip your finger in it and smell it as soon as she starts her period, so she'll know what her pu$$y looks like & smells like which would make her aware of any changes.

I notice that some fabrics makes my pu$$y stank. Generally panties that are made of synthetic fabrics.  Always read labels, look at the pu$$y & smell it!!

Gotta Take Care Of That Pu$$y

Amber Rose Showed That Pu$$y On Instagram

 I think this photo is photoshopped

Amber Rose show that pu$$y on Instagram, Did you see it? I didn't, I would have liked to have seen her pu$$y. Why? Because she showed it. Only she knows why she made such a bold move but from with I understanding she only showed the surface meaning the hair and that's nothing. If she would have open it up and placed a finger in her pu$$y that's whole another level. I think most people got bent out of shape because she did it on Instagram for all ages to see and doing such a thing affects young girls that looks up to Amber, and possible want to follow in her foot steps by show their pu$$y too.  I'm not knocking Amber, I feel that she is confident in her own skin (for the most part because I THINK some of her body part or parts are fake) and confident in her sexuality. 

Amber can be compared to Madonna in expressing herself sexually. I loved Madonna back in the back and she did influence me; however, I believe the people we like/love/look up too for the most part we have a common ground. As a young woman that liked Madonna, I appreciated/connected with Madonna because deep down I feel confident in my sexuality (however it was a long road to become the Seductress that I am today). Then I heard someone made a comment about her child and said, "what's going to happen when he goes to school and the other child tease him." Look, I'm sure her son is going to know his mother. I had an similar experience, I had to perform at the clients home (a burlesques performance, old school strip tease) and I could not find anyone to babysit my son, so I had to take him with me. I explained to my son that I am an entertainer and I will have on a wig, fishnet stocking, high heels, panties & bra pasties etc...) My son was like 2 or 3 at the time, he sat a watched me perform and then ran around the house. I'm glad that my son was able to see his mother do what I'm good at and love doing and that's dancing. My son understands me and he know about my service Seductive Art, that I written a book of erotic stories (name of the book is Quickie... coming soon) and the I blog about sex. So leave Amber & her son alone, I'm sure she got that.

I believe Amber consider herself a feminist. A feminist advocates social, political, legal and economical rights for women equal to those of men. In a way she is a feminist because girls are taught not be sexually expressive but it's OK for boys to it. I say, "Gurrrlll, express yourself, live honey, live"

Blame It On The Alcohol

Getting Black Out Drunk seems to be a white girls thang (not to say that women of other backgrounds don't get drunk but when I hear the phase Black Out Drunk it comes out of a white chicks mouth...I'm just sayin). On Bachelor In Paradise the contestants involved are Corinne Olympius (she's white) De Mario Jackson (he's black). They were filming and Corinne & De Mario was drunk and sex began (from what I understand it was oral sex and the shit was filmed.......DAM! Why did they tape that?) I hope that the black man don't take the fall for this because Corinne claims "she don't remember anything that happen" (Black Out Drunk). Does this means, she going to cry rape? (classic white bitch shit....you black men are going to learn.... fuckin with them white girls). The crew which more than likely is white was probably thinking "fuck her for fuckin with that black man." I'm not saying that statement is accurate but I bet some were thinking that way. If you see two people are drunk and your filming a reality show and not porn, I would think the director would shout "CUT!" because of lawsuits. The lesson here is:  KNOW YOUR LIMITS WITH DRUGS & ALCOHOL so you can be aware of your surrounding and in control of your mind and body. If you make the decide to get out of your mind drunk be with people that you absolutely trust...... 


            We don't condone anyone of any gender or racial background being sexually assaulted

 

A Man Asked U 2 Eat The Pu$$y

90% of the women (myself included), said "No." If a man asked/begged to eat your pu$$y, would you let him do it? A man, on the other hand, if a woman asked to suck his dick more that likely he would whip that dick out without hesitation. First, women don't like thirsty ass men. Second, women think you ask every woman your attracted to eat her pu$$y. Third, the mouth situation probably is not right. Finally, What I look like pullin my panties down and letting you slob all over my pu$$y.

The 10% of women that answered, "Yes." Went like this:

• Hell yeah
• If I haven't bust a nut in while and need to release...lick that shit
• I  hope a ni$$a would ask me.....panties off
• Bitches need their pu$$y lick just like a ni$$a needs their dick sucked
• Do you (talkin to me) know man that want a eat pu$$y? Send him my way

What would be your responses ladies?

Showing Affection

I witness a young couple (teenagers, a girl and boy) that liked each other and the showed affection by hitting each other. The guy was hitting the girl in a playful way but girl was hitting hard. (She was a big girl not a big big girl but a big girl...I'm just giving you a description, so relax) It made me think, why not show love in a kind/loving way by holding hands, touching or kissing. As I observed the young couple,  I could sense that these kids haven't been taught how to show affection to the opposite sex. In a lot of household love isn't showed physically or verbally it's assumed by the parents that the child or children automatically knows which is dumb because love is a verb which means action...SHOW THAT!

I also witness another situation were a lil boy who could have been no more that five years old with his mother and he was acting up screaming, crying and using inappropriate language. My initial thought was he has mental issues (which he probably has) but as I looked closer at the child's reaction physical abuse was also a factor in the equation. My thoughts went to sex (naturally, we all sexually beings, so knock it off) an I wondered, want kind of lover would this little boy be (an adult...don't get stupid)? 

• Maybe he would be over aggressive with women
• Maybe he would be a great lover with poor communication skills

The fact of the matter is we have to show love (saying I love you, kissing, hugging, saying thanks you & please etc..) to those that we love and I believe that those that show affection in a kind and loving matter are able to become great lovers...

LGBTQ Community, I have Question About The Q?

LGBTQ means Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning. I need help LQBTQ community, what does questioning means? Do it means:

• Your have thoughts of experiencing same gender sex?
• Your not sure if your asexual?
• You have had same gender sex but your confused if your bisexual, gay or lesbian?
• You just don't like labels?
• Is this some white people shit?

Please educated me LGBTQ! I really would like to hear from a black persons (not limited to) that represents the LGBTQ community.
 

Sugar Babies

What's a Sugar Baby? It's a young ladies that goes on DATES with men for money sex may or may not happen. Yeah! Right. Basically, it's prostitution with an age limited. Recently, I read a story of a sugar baby it goes: 

She was battling depression and one day she came across a website about traveling and dating. She got involved and has travel all over the world with men (married men) sex happens ninety percent of the time. Her bank account has increase, life is good.

I have no problem with women who use their body to get money (prostitution) as long as she feels good mentally, physically and spiritually while working (I wouldn't recommend this profession to any female). I assume that women in the game of prostitution love sex and excellent at being seductive. A good hoe knows how to stroke a man ego, be submissive or dominate an excellent at sex. 

My problem with these sugar babies, are these young ladies doing it strictly for the money or are they genuinely passionate about sex? Because their so young, I have a issue with these young ladies having a strong passion for sex/prostitution or the skill to be a seductress. Like the story above, that young lady was dealing with depression another sugar baby was doing it buy clothes, shoes and stupid shit like that. I'll use myself as an example: I was an stripper at the tender age of 23 an I liked it because of my passion for dance. But when I returned home, I felt filthy and I had to wash the smoke, the hands of the men touching me and lap dancing( which was sooooo gross) from my soul. I have no regrets. I do believe that YOUNG ladies that go into the sex sex industry rather it's porn, exotic dancing, escorting etc... is do it generally out of survival. There's always other options

 

Don't Bring A Black Man Home!

I have encountered many situation where a black man is fuckin a Caucasian, Asian, Hispanic woman and she would said, "my parents wouldn't approve or they can't bring a black man home to meet their parents." This shit is crazy because the black man doesn't see these statements as an insult, but he continue to fuck and love her. I understand that men aren't going (in most cases) turn down pu$$y, but where is the self awareness/worth? Of course these women want to experience The Black Passion an a big black dick (if he happens to have a big dick....not all black men have big dicks).

I have watched many documentaries on relationships from people of different cultures and the one thing that a lot of the parents have said, "Don't bring a black man home." It's crazy, the stigma that associated with black men & women related to relationship..... it's really ignorant point of view.

Case 1:

A black man was dating an Asian women and asked her to marry him but, she declined because of her parents racist views towards black men. However, he continue to date her until she finally broke it off.

Case 2:

A Jewish woman said, "It's forbidden to date black men in my family" I said, "Your father probably has a little dick complex." However, she was fuckin a black man that was married and was upset when he fucked her and left. "Honey, he's married! Your the bitch he fucks. Don't get me wrong, I personally don't think anything is wrong with this kind of relationship but don't get caught up in your feelin's.....just think want your father would say if he founded out you are getting dick down by a black man"

Case 3:

A black man was dating a Caucasian woman and thing were good between them but this mothafucka said, "I want to have a daughter with her so my daughter can have good hair." This is another level of ignorance...NO SELF LOVE and don't see the beauty within himself.

The situation is similar but yet different with black woman an a man of a different background. Most of these men don't know how to approach a black woman, because they feel they can't handle all our spiciness....Their probably right!  

 

Sex Tip Of The Day

I have a transgender friend and when we go out men would ask, "Is that a man or woman?" I never entertain with an answer. My friend is as beautiful as the woman above but her only flaw is her big ass man hands. I knew another transgender woman who is beautiful & sexy ass hell and her flaw was her voice, she sounds like a gay man...You know what the fuck I'm talkin about.

Tip Of The Day

If you have doubts about the gender of a person your thinking about fuckin leave it alone unless your interested in experiencing the mythical magical world of a boy-girl

Men With Phat Asses

Have you ever seen a man with a phat ass or with a phat ass and hips (naturally)? I have an it's weird to see a man with a woman silhouette. Most of the men that carries these traits are men of African or Hispanic descent because the woman of these background are built like goddess.

I have questions:

• Does it shake like a woman ass? 
• Does it feel good to grab during sex? 
• Is it hard for a man with hips to get between a woman legs
• Because a he has all that ass, is the dick small?

I have a phat ass and when I was pregnant with my son, I had the thought "I hope my son don't inherent my phat ass (Lucky, my son don't)." 

I recently discovered a girl that was born with two heads an my mind went to sex...naturally. I was like, "I'm sure a man would fuck her and she has to two heads he can get his dick sucked by two women in the same body, erotic". 

When a sperm & an egg meet you never know what's going to be the outcome.

That's What I Like Burro Mars Dance Video

 Seductress, Rill performance ESS Erotic, Sensual & Seductive dance lesson

Fighting Over the Pu$$y or Dick

Yoooooooo! Fighting over someone because they chose to fuck someone else is fuckin ridiculous. I say this all time NO ONE BELONGS TO YOU. THEY'RE THEIR OWN PERSON. This feeling of entitlement should be thrown out the window. Granted if your married or in a relationship your partner and you should have a sense of honor and respect for the relationship, but in actuality an individual would act and reacted as a person with consideration to their partner (most cases). Let be clear people are going to fuck whomever they want to fuck (facts). 

Yes! it hurts when your in a relationship and your partner find sexual comfort with someone else, but you two should talk about it. If you two decided to move on with the relationship, need to separate or make your sex life more interesting then do what works for your relationship. Violence has to stop! If you come across a person that's unreasonable the best thing to do is to walk away. 

Recently, a young woman in Chicago was killed by another female (over a guy). My cousin was killed by a woman they both had a baby by the same man and I had a friend that had an affair with a married woman after a night of romance, when she returned home to her husband (husband suspected his wife was cheating) he stabbed her to death. The violence has to stop


To My Young People:

Don't mislead a person your having sex, be honest and communicate so you can see what your dealing with. A lot of people with mental health issue. PAY ATTENTION TO THE SIGNS

Parents: A Female Teacher Having Sex With Your Preteen or Teenage Son

How would you feel if a female teacher had sex with your preteen/teenage son? Me, I would be furious! This happen more than you know. I have male friends that shared their sex experience with female teacher or a babysitter, and of course they didn't share that information with their parents. They felt like they were the man an I'm sure they did (with this ole bitch giving him grown up sex). These woman aren't thinking of the physiological affect it could have on the teenager.

 Fact:  In most of the cases, white female teacher engage in a sexual act with a preteen or teenage boys.

I don't know what going with white women or any woman that wants to have sex with boys. Mental health is a real. I'm really trying to wrap my mind around this. I feel uncomfortable when a teenage boys look at me with lust in their eyes.

I can't front, I have seen teenage boy an in my mind I would say, "he is going to drive them girls crazy." Nothing more.

My nephew who is nineteen years old reported to his farther that he was having sex with a forty six year old woman (the father was cool with that). I was so mad, I told his mother and he denied it. I shared this story with my mom and she said, "So! men do it." (so true). I replied, "I understand that but this on a pedophile level." 

Wait. Wait, Wait a minute. Life is filled with contradictions. I had sex with a teenager when I was in my early twenty's. What had happen was, I was in a relationship with this guy that had a big ole dick but he was not fuckin me right and at that time in my life, I wasn't able to express my sexual desires verbally. One night, I was somewhere and this teenager boy was there who could have been seventeen or nineteen at the time (keep in mind, I was in my early twenty's) and I fucked him and it wasn't good. I basically fucked him (rode the dick). He and I are still friends to this day. 

What makes my situation different, is that it wasn't a student teacher scenario? In a teacher student situation there's a code of conduct that the adult staff should follow to the letter. We send our child to school to learn not to get fucked by their teacher.

But then again, we all are sexual beings

We would love to hear your thoughts

Woman Gang Raped In India

 

 

 Click on the link the below and read the horrific story of a woman gang raped in India.

 

https://www.yahoo.com/news/woman-gang-raped-india-mutilated-093147526.html?.tsrc=fauxdal

 

My belief is we as a people need to engage our child in social behavior so that they learn how to interact with opposite sex as well as how to deal with rejection. I just blogged about my own experience with an abuser (verbal abuse). I say, "NO ONE BELONGS TO ANYONE, WE ARE OUR OWN PERSON." I don't understand what goes on in a man's mind that inflicts harm on a woman but what I do know is:

• He has been abused
• Mental health issues
• Never taught how to interact with the opposite sex
• Poor influences on how to interact with the opposite sex
• Low self esteem 

The abuse towards girls/women has to STOP!!

Advice I Recently Received

It's so true "you can't judge a book by it cover." People think that I have it going on in the relationship depart but it's so far from the truth.  Here are advice and observation that I received:

1. Gurrrl! You see something you like handed him your card, let him call you (see what his conversation is like) and go out a date.  Guurrrl, I got one for this and one for that. I don't know what she is saying is accurate but it's possible to juggle a lot of men
2.  When I see something I like I go get it. It's seems as if men want you to approach them, you need to get with the program
3.  You have a stink face 

I really should step out of my comfort zone and do something different to get a different result. But I'm am a lady that likes to be chased an I feel if a man wants me he'll come get me; however, that's not working for me. The next time I see a lil som som, I'm holla! Rill Talk!

Ladies & Men whatever type of relationship you want with the opposite sex or the same sex and what your currently doing is not working do something different.

Go Get That

Penetrating the Pu$$y

The best was way to penetrate the pu$$y Rill Good, you have to start with an extremely wet pu$$y (that comes with a large amount of foreplay kissing, titty sucking, licking biting, touching/rubbing, hair pulling whatever keeps the pu$$y hot & moist).

Repeated penetration will dry the pu$$y out UNLESS you are doing a variety of speeds, hip movements and applying some form of foreplay (when your about to cum that's understandable there's no controlling the speed, you know, the hard fast thrust).

Keep the pu$$y wet! Fuck the pu$$y Rill GOOD