Self & Sexual Confidence

There are some women and men that struggle with self and or sexual confidence. You should look yourself in the mirror and love what you see because it's YOU and if there are things that you would like to change about yourself then do it. If that involves surgery, make better food chooses, exercise etc.. find a support system and go for it. However, you must love who you are and not measure your beauty by what you see on TV, in magazine (so photo shopped) or the next person. Love who you are and you will find someone that appreciate and love you for U. Confidence is Sexy!

• Maybe you don't like the size of your penis or the look of your vagina
• Maybe you can't express wants and needs to your lover
• Maybe your frustrated with sex because your inexperience

Or whatever you sexual struggle may be there are solutions. As we know confidence come from within, so prepare your mental by saying "you can satisfy your lover an your worthy of giving and receiving great sex". Let say you don't like the size of your penis. I would suggest, you focus on erogenous areas of the your lovers body to where he or she are lost in ecstasy then fuck her or him real good.

Telling your lover what you desire can be a difficult task, but there is a sexy way to express your wants & needs. You can simply whisper seductively in your lover ear all your desires, there's no eye contact (no need to be nervous) by talking in a low sexy voice your lover will become hot & horny and ready to do as you commanded. 

If your frustrated because you lack experience no need to beat yourself up. I would suggest watching  porn but be carefully with your selections because a lot of porn focus only on the man and lack passion. Find a pornographic flim where both parties are engaged in pleasuring each other. Masturbation is a great to you find out what truly turn you on plus you and your lover can participate in dual masturbation. Dual masturbation is where you and your lover sit across from one another and touch your own body. It's sexy and hot plus your teaching your lover how you like it.

Be Confident Sexually