It's best to be to upfront and honest with a person, so that the other party knows where the relationship is going.
Examples:
1. Your in a relationship but you desire another person (we here at Rill Sex Talk don't condone this type of behavior, but situation like this happens all the time). It would be beneficial to you and the other person to say what you want, so there won't be a misunderstanding. More than likely it's a sex relationship the person you desire will agree or not. At least you were honest!
2. You are in a relationship but you keep putting off sex with your partner...it's been months No SEX. The relationship has hit a sour patch and you two continue to work on your relationship but still no sex. Then your partner finds out that you have been seeing someone else for months. I can only assume, the reason you didn't tell your partner that you were having sex with someone else is pure selfishness #Uncool
3. Your no longer sexual attracted to your partner, so you fine someone that your desire physically and you begin a sexual relationship with this person, but you don't end the relationship that your in. This is where the problems being.
I have a personal story of a man that was honest with me
I met a guy at a meeting that I attended weekly an I never thought of him in any way. He began conversation with me to my surprise he was a real cool guy. After a month of general conservation, he said, "I have a girl that I plan to marry, a mistress and your going to be my other chick. I was appalled yet intrigue by his confidence. I didn't agree to his proposal right away but slowly we spend time together going out to dinner, spa dates and I acting as eye candy at varies event with him. Yes! I became his other chick up until he got married.
He was HONEST with me an I knew exactly want to expect from out relationship. By telling the truth I eliminate my feelings getting hurt, me thinking we were going to move forward in our relationship and violent repercussion (I'm just saying, some people respond violently)
Keep It REAL
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