We, Women Should Establish. A Sistah Code
For Instance, lets say you have an encounter with a man & woman and they are in a relationship, but the man flirts with you. Out of respect for your fellow sistah you should shut his a$$ down early, and if that doesn't work because he's being persistent, you can do one of two things:
- Remove yourself from couple or cut ties with them all together
- Tell your friend, her man, "made you feel uncomfortable", but that can be tricky some women don't respond well to another woman telling them that their man made advances at another women... In some cases she will flip out on you or don't believe you.
Not all men, but some men will make passes at other women in his wife/girlfriend circle of friends an or female family members.... Testing you (female) to see if he could possibly fuck you. But, like I said, "Not all men". In some cases a friend an or family member will try to fuck or will fuck your man. And that's why we as women need to have that SISTAH CODE of HELL NAW! I WON'T DO THAT TO MY GIRL. We must value our relationships with other women and value ourselves with high standards.
The Situation Is Different
A dude that has a wife or a girl (you don't know his wife/girlfriend) this can be tricky (just note, life is filled with contradictions) he holla at you, you find him attractive, he told you he has a girl/wife but you simply want to fuck him (You all are going to disagree with me) it's OK to fuck him, but don't try to break up is home. This is apart of the SISTAH CODE but only the mature female with strong knowledge of sex & sexuality can execute this kind of relationship. You can't get emotionally attached or try to encourage him to leave his home for you. It's not uncommon for this kind of relationship your not being a side chick, your just a chick that fucks him and send his a$$ home after because their no emotional attachments or financial attachments it's just great sex.
Life is Tricky, Sex is Tricky...Let Have A Sistah CODE of HELL NAW!!!!
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